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Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”

Posted on January 5, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

The following is my emailed response to an Ohio father who moved here from Georgia and had custody through a Georgia court, of his two children whom he raised alone, and without any assistance from the mother of his children … Continue reading →

Posted in Emails from Others, Miscellaneous, The State of Ohio, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, corrupt, court, csea, custody, enforcement, father, georgia, mother, odjfs, ohio, support | 2 Comments

Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Posted on December 15, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Custody Issues, Morality and Religion, Single Moms, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged addict, agency, child, child support, csea, deadbeat, enforcemnt, moral, morality, ohio, single mom, super mom, support, visitation | Leave a comment

Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone

Posted on November 4, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio. However, I decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading →

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Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

Posted on October 28, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support Moms (CSMs), Humor Satire Sarcasm and Cynicism, Misandry, Miscellaneous, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, child support mom, children, csea, csm, dad, daddy, enforcement, fathers, mom, mommy, odjfs, ohio, support, villain, visitation, welfare | 2 Comments

The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

Posted on October 27, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading →

Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?

Posted on September 28, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction, they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Title-IV D of the Social Security Act, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, association, bridges, brown, child, county, csea, directors, employment, franklin, kim, kim newsom, newsom, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parent, sabotages, security, social, support, susan | 3 Comments

Why Didn’t My Comment Post to the Blog?

Posted on September 19, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Please note that due to the incredible amount of SPAM that “bots” and humans attempt to post to the OCFFR Blog, many legitimate comments by readers are inadvertently trapped by the Blog’s SPAM filters after being improperly flagged as SPAM. … Continue reading →

Posted in Notifications about Website and Blog Updates Issues and Changes | Tagged blog, how, how to post, my, post, to, where's | 1 Comment

Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

Posted on August 1, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading → Continue reading →

Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments

Posted on July 18, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, The State of Ohio, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, csea, enforcement, odjfs, ohio, ohio child support, overpayment, support | Leave a comment

Only One Person Can Help Everyone Overcome “The System”

Posted on July 11, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

The exchange posted below is one between myself and a father who recently commented here on the Blog. I feel it’s imperative to repost it here because until noncustodial parents (NCPs) begin to very carefully intellectualize, comprehend, and finally, act Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged assistance, child, csea, fathers, help, odjfs, ohio, ohio father's rights, rights, support, visitation | 6 Comments

Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on July 9, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on July 9, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading → Continue reading →

Ohio Moves to Separate Children from their Fathers by Defunding its Fatherhood Program

Posted on June 22, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Since founding this organization in 2007, I’ve always maintained that Ohio’s highly abusive (and as alleged in this recently filed lawsuit; fraudulent and wrongfully collected) child support collections efforts aren’t effected “in the best interests of the children” as the Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Fathers Rights Advocates Organizations and Advocacy, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, child support, csea, enforcement, kim newsom bridges, odjfs, ohio, support | 1 Comment

Why The System is as it is and Won’t Change…Yet

Posted on May 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Homeless “Child-Support” Paying Ohio Police Officers Sleeping in Cars and Basements

Posted on May 16, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I’ve heard countless stories over the years. Some were so shocking in nature that not only was I truly disturbed by them, they actually changed me. Truth be told, I’ve learned to harden my emotions as a result. Not from a Continue reading ; Continue reading →

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on May 10, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Protecting and Provisioning for Children as the End of “The Age of America” Dawns

Posted on April 27, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Received Via Email from an Ohio Mother in Defense of Her Incarcerated Son

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Thu, 21 Apr 2011 07:58:23 -0400 [04/21/2011 04:58:23 AM PDT] From: Cathy Xxxxxx <XXXXXXXX@zoomtown.com> To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: please help Hi Tony, I am writing to you for my son, he doesn’t know that I’m doing this but we all … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Received Via Email from a Hamilton County Father

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:17:03 -0400 [03:17:03 PM PDT] From: Txxxx Xxxxxxx <xxxxxx@gmail.com> To: ‘Tony Fantetti’ <tony.fantetti@ocffr.org> Subject: RE: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights website Hi Tony, Thanks for providing this informative site, organization, and your blog.I’m researching a possible … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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My Reasons for Founding Ohio Council for Fathers Rights

Posted on April 22, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

After my horrific introduction to Ohio’s “‘Child Support’ Extortion Agency” (CSEA) and Ohio’s Domestic Relations (aka “Family”) Court system, the kaleidoscope through which I viewed life was forever altered, and in a totally unchangeable way. In truth, it’s extremely difficult … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Another Warren County Father Commits Suicide

Posted on April 13, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Recently, a noncustodial father who was being harassed by the Warren County Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency (CSEA) and who hadn’t seen his children in years, committed suicide. Given that he only recently sought help for his accompanying mental illness, … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Received Via Email: Currently a Victim of CSEA

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Mon, 4 Apr 2011 19:42:25 -0700 [04/04/2011 07:42:25 PM PDT] From: Axxxxxxxx@xxxxx.com To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: Currently a Victim of CSEA Hello Tony I am desperate and trying to find help, advice or anything in regards to my Child Support … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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How to Avoid Having your Assets Wrongfully Siezed by Ohio’s CSEA

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Update April 6, 2011 23:00: I happened upon the following shortly after posting the blog entry below. I know from experience that just because a “Child Support” Extortion Agency labels someone a “deadbeat dad” and alleges he owes “X amount … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Don’t Know if You Can Help

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I received the following via email: ___________________________________ Haven’t seen my now 5 year old son in over 13 months. Now have a 3 month old daughter. I’m low income and have been calling ABLE since Oct. but told to call … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Abuse, Custody Issues, Emails from Others, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | 4 Comments

Another Perspective

Posted on April 4, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Mon, 04 Apr 2011 19:07:04 -0700 [07:07:04 PM PDT] From: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org To: MXXXXX@XXXXX.com Subject: Re: Another perspective MXXXXXX Thanks for taking the time to write me and share your perspective wth me. Your email brings up many issues that … Continue reading →

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The Athens County CSEA wants to “Serve You” Better

Posted on March 25, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I’m unwilling to waste the required time to point out every stupid Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency’s (CSEA) website I stumble upon. However, after I happened upon the Athens County Ohio CSEA’s website, I couldn’t refrain from pointing out the … Continue reading →

Posted in Athens County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Child Support, Humor Satire Sarcasm and Cynicism | Tagged athens, child, county, csea, customer, ohio, randall l galbraith, support, theft | 1 Comment

Moria Weir of the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency is in Contempt of Court

Posted on March 23, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I’ve blogged repeatedly about my ongoing “child support” overpayment that was nearly $7,500 give or take a few hundred. To briefly explain; the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) continues to deduct my “child support” obligation from my every … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), National Child Support Enforcement Association (NCSEA), Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses | Tagged agency, child, contempt, county, court, csea, enforcement, hamilton, Moria, ohio, support, Weir | 2 Comments

Are “Single Moms by Choice” Heroines or Villains?

Posted on January 10, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Before proceeding, I want to clarify the following; This article is not directed at mothers who divorced for legitimate reasons or are single through no fault of their own. It’s directed at those “child support moms” who either chose to … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, choice, csea, divorce, enforcement, false, fathers, federal, kim newsom bridges, lie, moms, ohio, order, protective, restraining, single, support | 4 Comments

Ohio Removes Web Pages after We’ve Linked to them

Posted on January 3, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Please note that I’ve linked to various web pages on the State of Ohio’s web sites in many posts I’ve made to this blog. I’m discovering that Ohio has since removed the specific portions (from their website) that I had referenced … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, csea, enforcement, fathers, felony, jobs, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, odjfs, ohio, support | 2 Comments

A Repost of a My Response to Another Commenter’s Post

Posted on December 29, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

Below is my re-posted response to another commenter who posted here: Given my situation has changed considerably since I made that original blog entry in August of 2008, I wanted to point out as I have below, that the State … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses | Tagged agency, child, county, csea.hamilton, department, enforcement, family, jobs, office, ohio, services, support | 2 Comments

There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

Posted on December 6, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Suicide, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child support, county, csea, darke, enforcement, fathers, hamilton, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, nightmare, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parents, story, suicide | 1 Comment

All Previous Posts will be Restored

Posted on December 6, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

Please continue to check this blog as about 140 previous posts will be restored over the next few weeks. Additionally, I will be blogging regularly once again. Unfortunately, my daughter and I are not immune to the horrors of “Family … Continue reading →

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Job Seeking Ohio Father Fears Felony Indictment for Being Unemployed

Posted on December 2, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

At a fatherhood summit in Ohio about 18 months ago, I unleashed a verbal tirade directed at Ohio’s Deputy Child Support Director at that time. I demanded an immediate moratorium on Ohio’s felony indictment of fathers for criminal nonsupport. That, … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Employment and Unemployment, These are "Deadbeats?", Uncategorized | Tagged abusive, agency, child support, columbus, csea, deceptive, depression, economy, enforcement, felony, indictment, job, jobs and family services, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, unemployement | Leave a comment

Blogging about Ohio’s Increasingly Abusive and Deceptive “Child Support” Enforcement Agency

Posted on November 15, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

Please accept my humble apology for the excessively lengthy lapse in blogging. Please know that my efforts to expose the heartless and deviant corruption of Ohio’s child support system does and will continue on behalf of all fathers and children. … Continue reading →

Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Uncategorized | Tagged abusive, act, agency, bill, child, child support enforcement, csea, deceptive, enforecement, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, ocda, ohio, protection, story, support | Leave a comment

Could Ohio be Incarcerating Unemployed Fathers for a Profit

Posted on September 21, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

How many more fathers who’ve lost their jobs through no fault of their own will the State of Ohio indict, arrest, and incarcerate for “felony” criminal nonsupport of a minor child? Is jailing an innocent child’s father, and thereby separating … Continue reading →

Posted in Incarceration and Prison, Uncategorized | Tagged act, agency, bill, child, county, cuyahoga, darke, democrat, enforcement, hamilton, incarceration, justice is coming, kim newsom bridges, montgomery, ncsea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, politician, prison, protection, republican, support | 1 Comment

Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

Posted on May 27, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

1/2/11 EDITOR’S NOTE: Please note that the State of Ohio has removed their website links that I’ve referenced in the previously published article below. This is not uncommon for them to do, as they regularly remove web pages on their … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Cuyahoga County Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, These are "Deadbeats?", Unconscionable Child Support Horror Stories | Tagged agency, cancer, child support, csea, cuyahoga, darke, enforcement, father, hamilton, income, kim newsom bridges, miami, montgomery, ncsea, ocda, ohio | 1 Comment

Can I Stop my Ex from Moving my Daughter to Florida without my Consent

Posted on October 8, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

A Father emailed the following to me: “I need help with my custody case. My ex is moving to Florida without my consent. She has full custody of our daughter. How do I go about changing this?” Legal Disclaimer: First … Continue reading →

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Why are you Selling my Bicycle Daddy?

Posted on October 2, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Throughout the summer, we held yard sales (aka “junk” sales) to raise money for basic necessities. Things such as utilities, food and gas could not be purchased without us selling our prized possessions for pennies on the dollar. Up for … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support Hurts, Employment and Unemployment, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), These are "Deadbeats?", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged act, agency, association, bicycle, bill, child, county, cuyahoga, daddy, darke, directors, enforcement, hamilton, kim newsom bridges, montgomery, nscea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, protection, selling, support | Leave a comment

Please Contact Ohio Governor Ted Strickland to Support Fathers4Justice Protestors Atop Crane

Posted on September 30, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Dear friends and fellow advocates of Ohio Council for Fathers Rights, Please contact Governor Strickland’s office through phone, fax, the internet, (please see the link below for submitting comments via the internet) and email to respectfully insist that the Fathers4Justice … Continue reading →

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Mere Misandry or Incredibly Fantastic Lies Indicative of Delutionary Lunacy

Posted on September 29, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

The following is undoubtedly the most lying and deceptive website (describing America’s Family Courts) I’ve ever come across. I believe one should choose their battles wisely. That said, there are incredibly talented people in the likes of Glenn Sacks, Stephen … Continue reading →

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