Author Archives: Tony Fantetti

Happy Fathers Day

Today is Father’s Day,  a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading

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A Diabolically Evil “Mother” Locks a Loving Father Out of his Sons Lives

Posted below is an exchange between  a woman named LaTashia, and myself, about her husband who has two sons with an ex that retains full custody of them. This is yet another example that shows just how broken Ohio’s “Child … Continue reading

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To Mr. Kevin Eslinger why I Removed your Comment

Mr. Eslinger, In the 12 years I’ve been doing this, I’ve deleted only two comments on this blog. I’ve spent thousands of dollars of my own money, and put thousands of hours of my own time into helping others free of … Continue reading

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Father Paying “Child Support” for Teenage Daughter Living with Him

The following is just another example of how ridiculous and deceptively stupid the phrase “in the best interests of the child” can be at times. The email below, posted with the permission of the father who sent it to me, … Continue reading

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Blogging will Resume

To my valued readers, First and foremost, please accept my sincere and humble apology for having the OCFFR Blog offline for as long as it was. For reasons I’ll explain later, there are certain situations that necessitate doing so. It’s … Continue reading

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Single Mom Toya Graham Revered as a ‘Hero’ for Abusing Son who Participated in Baltimore Riots

I find it utterly stunning that many in the media and public in general are calling a “hero” single mother Toya Graham who after seeing her son participating in the Baltimore riots, began beating him and smacking him about the … Continue reading

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OCFFR Blog Temporarily Going Offline

To my readers, I’m once again, and for the second time in six years, facing unemployment at a time when my web hosting fees are due. At best I’ll be late in paying them, so this site will be suspended, … Continue reading

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14 Year Old Boy Raped by 20 Year Old Woman is Ordered to Pay his Rapist Child Support

This story was first reported a few days ago, and aside from the anger it causes me right now, I can only say it really doesn’t surprise me. Another thing I’d like to point out is the fact that they … Continue reading

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The Horrific Costs of the Balkanization and Pimping of Men by Pols and the Media

This post is really out of character for me. So much so, that I wasn’t going to post it. However I must, because the root of men’s problems (especially single or divorced father’s)  is found in the contemptible treatment of … Continue reading

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Ohio’s Abuse of a Loving Father’s Daughter Via “Child Support”

The story below was posted as a comment by a father named Corey in April 2012. Corey’s story is very moving and clearly illustrates how the State of Ohio’s draconian and very abusive “child support” tactics actually harm children. That’s … Continue reading

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Happy Fathers Day to all Dads

Happy Father’s Day to all of you dads out there!  Today is certainly a day to celebrate the many blessings that dads bring to their children as well as those blessings that they bring to us! Children and wives are … Continue reading

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Never Give up on Trying to See your Children and be a Father to them

I get it, trust me, I really  do. The stresses of trying to exercise your “visitation” aka parenting time as a noncustodial father (or mother) is no less stressful than a trip to hell and back with Satan tormenting you … Continue reading

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P&G’s Olympic-Sized Slap to all Father’s Faces Wins the Gold for Global Corporate Paternal Contempt

Congratulations to Cincinnati based Proctor and Gamble (P&G) for their slap to the faces of all dad’s around the world by once again willfully ignoring the contributions that loving fathers make to not only the world’s Olympians, but to the … Continue reading

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Why?

“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading

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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers

To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading

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Happy Fathers Day to all Dads!

Today is Father’s Day,  a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading

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Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response)  to the front page  OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading

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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children)  and often times … Continue reading

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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading

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Single Working Mother Hatefully Denigrates all Single Fathers who’ve Fallen Behind on their “Child Support” Obligations

I generally don’t waste the precious time that I did “debating”  people such as the  contentious woman with whom I had the conversation with here. However, her unwarranted attack on myself and all single dads with her snide and hateful … Continue reading

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Lose Hope Your Children May Lose You and then Evil Triumphs

I do my best to refrain from saying the same things repeatedly. However, some things are so important they must repeatedly be said. To that end, please know that your children can never afford for their parent, especially single dads … Continue reading

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Not so Fast $6,000,000 Man Steve Austin Katie Holmes is Ohio’s $10,000,000 “Child Support Mom”

“Child support mom” (CSM), thief, daddy-welfare recipient, or financial dependent; which best describes Katie Holmes in using the courts to extort $10 million in “child support” from Tom Cruise over the next 12 years “for” daughter Suri? All of them. … Continue reading

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I Apologize to My Readers for the Long Period of Silence which Sadly Included Father’s Day

Please accept my humble and sincere apology for the long period of silence through which no posts were made to the blog, and likewise I was unable to return phone calls and emails. Although I won’t go into specifics, the … Continue reading

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To DeadbeatDead: Please Don’t Take Your Own Life Your Children Need You

If you are the father below who posted the following comment on 4/16, I implore you to please contact me. I am so sorry that I did not understand that which you said when I read your comment the first … Continue reading

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The Fading and Fizzling Effects of Mark Byron’s Cincinnati “Shooting Star” Like Case

Just two short months ago, the Mark Byron case was a world-wide internet sensation that for a very brief moment in time,  shined an incredibly bright spotlight on the throes and abuses that most fathers (both custodial and noncustodial) routinely … Continue reading

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Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program

Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading

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Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”

The following is my emailed response to an Ohio father who moved here from Georgia and had custody through a Georgia court, of his two children whom he raised alone, and without any assistance from the mother of his children … Continue reading

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Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading

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Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone

Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio.  However, I  decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading

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Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading

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The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading

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Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?

This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction,  they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading

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Why Didn’t My Comment Post to the Blog?

Please note that due to the incredible amount of SPAM that “bots” and humans attempt to post to the OCFFR Blog, many legitimate comments by readers are inadvertently trapped by the Blog’s SPAM filters after being improperly flagged as SPAM. … Continue reading

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Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading Continue reading

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Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments

The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading

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Only One Person Can Help Everyone Overcome “The System”

The exchange posted below is one between myself and a father who recently commented here on the Blog. I feel it’s imperative to repost it here because until noncustodial parents (NCPs) begin to very carefully intellectualize, comprehend, and finally, act Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Moves to Separate Children from Fathers by Defunding Fatherhood Program

Since founding this organization in 2007, I’ve always maintained that Ohio’s highly abusive (and as alleged  in this recently filed lawsuit;  fraudulent and wrongfully collected) child support collections efforts aren’t effected “in the best interests of the children” as the Continue reading Continue reading

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Why The System is as it is and Won’t Change…Yet

They’re endless, “about me,” all that matters, and the reason Ohio’s “Family Court” system and the “Child Support” Enforcement Agency (CSEA) are as they are. They truly believe their situation to be unique, the most important of all, and deserving … Continue reading → Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading

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