Author Archives: Tony Fantetti

Why The System is as it is and Won’t Change…Yet

Posted on May 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Homeless “Child-Support” Paying Ohio Police Officers Sleeping in Cars and Basements

Posted on May 16, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I’ve heard countless stories over the years. Some were so shocking in nature that not only was I truly disturbed by them, they actually changed me. Truth be told, I’ve learned to harden my emotions as a result. Not from a Continue reading ; Continue reading →

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on May 10, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Protecting and Provisioning for Children as the End of “The Age of America” Dawns

Posted on April 27, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Received Via Email from an Ohio Mother in Defense of Her Incarcerated Son

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Thu, 21 Apr 2011 07:58:23 -0400 [04/21/2011 04:58:23 AM PDT] From: Cathy Xxxxxx <XXXXXXXX@zoomtown.com> To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: please help Hi Tony, I am writing to you for my son, he doesn’t know that I’m doing this but we all … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Received Via Email from a Hamilton County Father

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:17:03 -0400 [03:17:03 PM PDT] From: Txxxx Xxxxxxx <xxxxxx@gmail.com> To: ‘Tony Fantetti’ <tony.fantetti@ocffr.org> Subject: RE: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights website Hi Tony, Thanks for providing this informative site, organization, and your blog.I’m researching a possible … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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My Reasons for Founding Ohio Council for Fathers Rights

Posted on April 22, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

After my horrific introduction to Ohio’s “‘Child Support’ Extortion Agency” (CSEA) and Ohio’s Domestic Relations (aka “Family”) Court system, the kaleidoscope through which I viewed life was forever altered, and in a totally unchangeable way. In truth, it’s extremely difficult … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Another Warren County Father Commits Suicide

Posted on April 13, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Recently, a noncustodial father who was being harassed by the Warren County Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency (CSEA) and who hadn’t seen his children in years, committed suicide. Given that he only recently sought help for his accompanying mental illness, … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Received Via Email: Currently a Victim of CSEA

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Mon, 4 Apr 2011 19:42:25 -0700 [04/04/2011 07:42:25 PM PDT] From: Axxxxxxxx@xxxxx.com To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: Currently a Victim of CSEA Hello Tony I am desperate and trying to find help, advice or anything in regards to my Child Support … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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How to Avoid Having your Assets Wrongfully Siezed by Ohio’s CSEA

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Update April 6, 2011 23:00: I happened upon the following shortly after posting the blog entry below. I know from experience that just because a “Child Support” Extortion Agency labels someone a “deadbeat dad” and alleges he owes “X amount … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Don’t Know if You Can Help

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I received the following via email: ___________________________________ Haven’t seen my now 5 year old son in over 13 months. Now have a 3 month old daughter. I’m low income and have been calling ABLE since Oct. but told to call … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Abuse, Custody Issues, Emails from Others, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | 4 Comments

Another Perspective

Posted on April 4, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Mon, 04 Apr 2011 19:07:04 -0700 [07:07:04 PM PDT] From: Tony Fantetti To: MXXXXX@XXXXX.com Subject: Re: Another perspective MXXXXXX Thanks for taking the time to write me and share your perspective wth me. Your email brings up many issues … Continue reading →

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The Athens County CSEA wants to “Serve You” Better

Posted on March 25, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I’m unwilling to waste the required time to point out every stupid Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency’s (CSEA) website I stumble upon. However, after I happened upon the Athens County Ohio CSEA’s website, I couldn’t refrain from pointing out the … Continue reading →

Posted in Athens County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Child Support, Humor Satire Sarcasm and Cynicism | Tagged athens, child, county, csea, customer, ohio, randall l galbraith, support, theft | 1 Comment

Moria Weir of the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency is in Contempt of Court

Posted on March 23, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

I’ve blogged repeatedly about my ongoing “child support” overpayment that was nearly $7,500 give or take a few hundred. To briefly explain; the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) continues to deduct my “child support” obligation from my every … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), National Child Support Enforcement Association (NCSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA) | Tagged agency, child, contempt, county, court, csea, enforcement, hamilton, Moria, ohio, support, Weir | 2 Comments

Are “Single Moms by Choice” Heroines or Villains?

Posted on January 10, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Before proceeding, I want to clarify the following; This article is not directed at mothers who divorced for legitimate reasons or are single through no fault of their own. It’s directed at those “child support moms” who either chose to … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, choice, csea, divorce, enforcement, false, fathers, federal, kim newsom bridges, lie, moms, ohio, order, protective, restraining, single, support | 4 Comments

Ohio Removes Web Pages after We’ve Linked to them

Posted on January 3, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Please note that I’ve linked to various web pages on the State of Ohio’s web sites in many posts I’ve made to this blog. I’m discovering that Ohio has since removed the specific portions (from their website) that I had referenced … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, csea, enforcement, fathers, felony, jobs, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, odjfs, ohio, support | 3 Comments

A Repost of a My Response to Another Commenter’s Post

Posted on December 29, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

Below is my re-posted response to another commenter who posted here: Given my situation has changed considerably since I made that original blog entry in August of 2008, I wanted to point out as I have below, that the State … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses | Tagged agency, child, county, csea.hamilton, department, enforcement, family, jobs, office, ohio, services, support | 4 Comments

There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

Posted on December 6, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Suicide, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child support, county, csea, darke, enforcement, fathers, hamilton, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, nightmare, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parents, story, suicide | 7 Comments

All Previous Posts will be Restored

Posted on December 6, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

Please continue to check this blog as about 140 previous posts will be restored over the next few weeks. Additionally, I will be blogging regularly once again. Unfortunately, my daughter and I are not immune to the horrors of “Family … Continue reading →

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Job Seeking Ohio Father Fears Felony Indictment for Being Unemployed

Posted on December 2, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

At a fatherhood summit in Ohio about 18 months ago, I unleashed a verbal tirade directed at Ohio’s Deputy Child Support Director at that time. I demanded an immediate moratorium on Ohio’s felony indictment of fathers for criminal nonsupport. That, … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Employment and Unemployment, These are "Deadbeats?", Uncategorized | Tagged abusive, agency, child support, columbus, csea, deceptive, depression, economy, enforcement, felony, indictment, job, jobs and family services, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, unemployement | Comments Off

Blogging about Ohio’s Increasingly Abusive and Deceptive “Child Support” Enforcement Agency

Posted on November 15, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

Please accept my humble apology for the excessively lengthy lapse in blogging. Please know that my efforts to expose the heartless and deviant corruption of Ohio’s child support system does and will continue on behalf of all fathers and children. … Continue reading →

Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Uncategorized | Tagged abusive, act, agency, bill, child, child support enforcement, csea, deceptive, enforecement, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, ocda, ohio, protection, story, support | Comments Off

Could Ohio be Incarcerating Unemployed Fathers for a Profit

Posted on September 21, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

How many more fathers who’ve lost their jobs through no fault of their own will the State of Ohio indict, arrest, and incarcerate for “felony” criminal nonsupport of a minor child? Is jailing an innocent child’s father, and thereby separating … Continue reading →

Posted in Incarceration and Prison, Uncategorized | Tagged act, agency, bill, child, county, cuyahoga, darke, democrat, enforcement, hamilton, incarceration, justice is coming, kim newsom bridges, montgomery, ncsea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, politician, prison, protection, republican, support | 1 Comment

Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

Posted on May 27, 2009 by Tony Fantetti

1/2/11 EDITOR’S NOTE: Please note that the State of Ohio has removed their website links that I’ve referenced in the previously published article below. This is not uncommon for them to do, as they regularly remove web pages on their … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Cuyahoga County Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), These are "Deadbeats?", Unconscionable Child Support Horror Stories | Tagged agency, cancer, child support, csea, cuyahoga, darke, enforcement, father, hamilton, income, kim newsom bridges, miami, montgomery, ncsea, ocda, ohio | 5 Comments

Can I Stop my Ex from Moving my Daughter to Florida without my Consent

Posted on October 8, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

A Father emailed the following to me: “I need help with my custody case. My ex is moving to Florida without my consent. She has full custody of our daughter. How do I go about changing this?” Legal Disclaimer: First … Continue reading →

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Why are you Selling my Bicycle Daddy?

Posted on October 2, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Throughout the summer, we held yard sales (aka “junk” sales) to raise money for basic necessities. Things such as utilities, food and gas could not be purchased without us selling our prized possessions for pennies on the dollar. Up for … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support Hurts, Employment and Unemployment, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), These are "Deadbeats?", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged act, agency, association, bicycle, bill, child, county, cuyahoga, daddy, darke, directors, enforcement, hamilton, kim newsom bridges, montgomery, nscea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, protection, selling, support | Comments Off

Please Contact Ohio Governor Ted Strickland to Support Fathers4Justice Protestors Atop Crane

Posted on September 30, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Dear friends and fellow advocates of Ohio Council for Fathers Rights, Please contact Governor Strickland’s office through phone, fax, the internet, (please see the link below for submitting comments via the internet) and email to respectfully insist that the Fathers4Justice … Continue reading →

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Mere Misandry or Incredibly Fantastic Lies Indicative of Delutionary Lunacy

Posted on September 29, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

The following is undoubtedly the most lying and deceptive website (describing America’s Family Courts) I’ve ever come across. I believe one should choose their battles wisely. That said, there are incredibly talented people in the likes of Glenn Sacks, Stephen … Continue reading →

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Email Submission: My Ex is Withholding Visitation what can I do?

Posted on September 29, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

K****, I could write a book as an answer to “What can I do?” Regardless, the outcome in each and every situation could possibly be the same, nothing changes. Nevertheless, you are in the exact same situation as **** ** … Continue reading →

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My Reply to an OCFFR Member Regarding the Trajectory of my Life

Posted on September 28, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Hello David, I laughed when I read this, “Hopefully, the trajectory of your life has assumed a more positive course.” You have an artistic way with words. I have a POD out back that I must load what’s left of … Continue reading →

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Military Father Homeless and Without Money for Food or Gasoline

Posted on September 25, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

I don’t generally post these types of emails as it’s indicative of most fathers who pay child support; they are bankrupt, without money to eat or to pay bills and many are homeless due to outrageously high and grossly unjust … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Military Mothers and Fathers, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, These are "Deadbeats?", Uncategorized, Unconscionable Child Support Horror Stories | Tagged act, agency, bill, child, csea, enforcement, father, homeless, kim newsom bridges, military, ncsea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, protection, support | Comments Off

If Alec Baldwin is a “Bad Father” then Kim Basinger must be Declared a “Worse Mother”

Posted on September 23, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

As is usually the case with the innumerable anti-father misandrists in the media, fathers are demonized while mothers simultaneously rise to the level of sainthood, no matter what the situation, when it comes to divorce, and more importantly, custody. You … Continue reading →

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I Offer My Condolences to the Family of Minister Ronald Smith

Posted on September 7, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I extend my heartfelt condolences to the family of Minister Ronald Smith. Sadly, Ron passed suddenly on Friday September 5, 2008. As a well known and well respected father, Father’s … Continue reading →

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If You are an Ohio Resident it is Our Opinon that You Avoid Dayton Attorney Jeremiah Denslow

Posted on September 4, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Beware of this attorney! I personally expressed my concerns to Mr. Denslow regarding how he was advertising his services on his website. I do not consider myself to be the IAP (Internet Attorney Police) nor do I “look” for websites … Continue reading →

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Please Consider Assisting Us so that We May Assist Others

Posted on September 3, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

We do not charge to assist others. Many have received tremendous help from us. For some thousands of dollars in unjust, unwarranted and false child support arrears have been forgiven as a direct result of our involvement with their cases. … Continue reading →

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Dad Who Attempted Suicide is Declared “Voluntarily Underemployed” for Child Support Purposes

Posted on August 27, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

This is one of the most sickening and inhumane cases of child “support” abuse I’ve ever seen or heard of. Laconia New Hampshire voters have a moral obligation to vote Family Court Judge Lucinda Sadler off the bench, and that … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized, Unconscionable Child Support Horror Stories | 36 Comments

The Montgomery County Child Support Enforcement Agency’s Shameful Albeit Very Public Display of Misandry

Posted on August 26, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

If I were to write about the rampant misandry that’s proudly championed by Ohio’s 88 county Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), I would go on, and on, and on… That said, child support ‘enforcement’ and misandry are synonymous, simply assumed, … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Montgomery County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, county, csea, enforcement, misandry, montgomery, montgomery county, ohio, support | 5 Comments

An Ohio Attorney Who Proudly Profits off of the Decimation of Children’s Lives

Posted on August 26, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

I do not consider myself the “Legal Police”, nor do I have the time to address every questionable website (advertising lawyers and their firms) that “cross the line” in their attempts to attract business from unsuspecting persons. That said, I … Continue reading →

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Psychological Warfare

Posted on August 25, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

The following is a comment that a user posted to the OCFFR Blog that I turned into a separate blog post as I felt that the message was too important to be hidden among comments. Posted by an anonymous person … Continue reading →

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Poor Father Incarcerated by the Montgomery Co OH CSEA for not Paying Child Support for his Late Daughter

Posted on August 23, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

I attended the Ohio Child Support Guidelines Council 2009 Forum on August 18, 2008 in Hamilton County. I was more than disappointed at the lack of public attendance (considering how well-advertised the forum was) but will save those comments for … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Montgomery County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Unconscionable Child Support Horror Stories | Tagged black, child, csea, daughter, deceased, father, montgomery, ohio, poor, support | Comments Off

In Support of Amy Alkon the Syndicated Advice Columnist Journalist and Blogger

Posted on August 19, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

As reported on her website, Amy Alkon a well-known and syndicated Advice Columnist, Journalist and Blogger continues to be attacked by “progressive” liberal fascists from SimplyNo! for her comments in a recent blog article. Amy often-times uses very colorful and … Continue reading →

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