Category Archives: Emails from Others

Emails I’ve received and in some cases, responded to.

Father Paying “Child Support” for Teenage Daughter Living with Him

The following is just another example of how ridiculous and deceptively stupid the phrase “in the best interests of the child” can be at times. The email below, posted with the permission of the father who sent it to me, … Continue reading

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Blogging will Resume

To my valued readers, First and foremost, please accept my sincere and humble apology for having the OCFFR Blog offline for as long as it was. For reasons I’ll explain later, there are certain situations that necessitate doing so. It’s … Continue reading

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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers

To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading

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Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response)  to the front page  OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading

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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children)  and often times … Continue reading

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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading

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To DeadbeatDead: Please Don’t Take Your Own Life Your Children Need You

If you are the father below who posted the following comment on 4/16, I implore you to please contact me. I am so sorry that I did not understand that which you said when I read your comment the first … Continue reading

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Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”

The following is my emailed response to an Ohio father who moved here from Georgia and had custody through a Georgia court, of his two children whom he raised alone, and without any assistance from the mother of his children … Continue reading

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The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading

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Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a re-post of blog entry from May 10, 2011 The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected at all cost, and … Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading Continue reading

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Don’t Know if You Can Help

I received the following via email: ___________________________________ Haven’t seen my now 5 year old son in over 13 months. Now have a 3 month old daughter. I’m low income and have been calling ABLE since Oct. but told to call … Continue reading

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Warren County Father with Mental Disorder Jailed for Failing to Pay “Child Support”

Mr. Fantetti I am glad that I have stumbled upon your website. Although i may be a little late. I will go into Warren County court in the morning for a contempt charge. I am expecting to be arrested and … Continue reading

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My Reply to an OCFFR Member Regarding the Trajectory of my Life

Hello David, I laughed when I read this, “Hopefully, the trajectory of your life has assumed a more positive course.” You have an artistic way with words. I have a POD out back that I must load what’s left of … Continue reading

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Psychological Warfare

The following is a comment that a user posted to the OCFFR Blog that I turned into a separate blog post as I felt that the message was too important to be hidden among comments. Posted by an anonymous person … Continue reading

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Police Indifference Towards a Custodial Father Regarding Non-Custodial Parental Abduction

We received the following plea for help from an out-of-state father a few hours ago: “My son was abducted to your state and the police barely will help me…I have sole legal custody and have an idea of where he … Continue reading

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An Ohio Aunt’s Plea for Help

I just recently received the following email: My brother in law is being forced to pay $2000.00 a month in child support and alimony out of a $3000.00 check. His lawyer isn’t working out and as an aunt I’m heartbroken … Continue reading

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My Response to the Darke County CSEA’s Indictment of a Father with a Broken Neck

Dear Ms. Ratliff and Mr. Schinke: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights has been petitioned by Mr. Michael Sxxxxx to intervene on his behalf in the matter of his child support order originating in Darke County Ohio, and that is currently … Continue reading

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Letter from an Incarcerated Ohio Father

In an Ohio Inmate Letter Dated May 19, 2008 I received the following: Dear Mr. Fantetti, First of all, I apologize if I have misspelled your name. I was given this information by another inmate at C.R.C. I am currently … Continue reading

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French Father Staging Hunger Strike to Protest the International Abduction of His Twin Boys to Warren County Ohio

Following is a letter I received from a French Father whose wife kidnapped their children while he was at work (in France) and took them to Warren County Ohio. Not surprisingly, his repeated requests to have his children returned to … Continue reading

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