Category Archives: This is in the “Best Interests of the Children?”

Ohio’s Courts and Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEA) claim to always be acting only in the “best interests of the children.” Read these posts and please understand the following; these stories are NOT aberrations, they’re the norm. Then know that the reason these children suffer is because the State of Ohio earns “hundreds of millions of dollars” through it’s unabated profiteering and gaming of Ohio’s “child support” system. The only interest Ohio’s concerned about is her best financial interest at the “expense” of Ohio’s innocent and precious children.

Father Paying “Child Support” for Teenage Daughter Living with Him

The following is just another example of how ridiculous and deceptively stupid the phrase “in the best interests of the child” can be at times. The email below, posted with the permission of the father who sent it to me, … Continue reading

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Blogging will Resume

To my valued readers, First and foremost, please accept my sincere and humble apology for having the OCFFR Blog offline for as long as it was. For reasons I’ll explain later, there are certain situations that necessitate doing so. It’s … Continue reading

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Ohio’s Abuse of a Loving Father’s Daughter Via “Child Support”

The story below was posted as a comment by a father named Corey in April 2012. Corey’s story is very moving and clearly illustrates how the State of Ohio’s draconian and very abusive “child support” tactics actually harm children. That’s … Continue reading

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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers

To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading

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Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response)  to the front page  OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading

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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children)  and often times … Continue reading

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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading

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Lose Hope Your Children May Lose You and then Evil Triumphs

I do my best to refrain from saying the same things repeatedly. However, some things are so important they must repeatedly be said. To that end, please know that your children can never afford for their parent, especially single dads … Continue reading

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Not so Fast $6,000,000 Man Steve Austin Katie Holmes is Ohio’s $10,000,000 “Child Support Mom”

“Child support mom” (CSM), thief, daddy-welfare recipient, or financial dependent; which best describes Katie Holmes in using the courts to extort $10 million in “child support” from Tom Cruise over the next 12 years “for” daughter Suri? All of them. … Continue reading

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To DeadbeatDead: Please Don’t Take Your Own Life Your Children Need You

If you are the father below who posted the following comment on 4/16, I implore you to please contact me. I am so sorry that I did not understand that which you said when I read your comment the first … Continue reading

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Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program

Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading

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Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading

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The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading

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Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?

This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction,  they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading

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Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Moves to Separate Children from Fathers by Defunding Fatherhood Program

Since founding this organization in 2007, I’ve always maintained that Ohio’s highly abusive (and as alleged  in this recently filed lawsuit;  fraudulent and wrongfully collected) child support collections efforts aren’t effected “in the best interests of the children” as the Continue reading Continue reading

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Don’t Know if You Can Help

I received the following via email: ___________________________________ Haven’t seen my now 5 year old son in over 13 months. Now have a 3 month old daughter. I’m low income and have been calling ABLE since Oct. but told to call … Continue reading

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Warren County Father with Mental Disorder Jailed for Failing to Pay “Child Support”

Mr. Fantetti I am glad that I have stumbled upon your website. Although i may be a little late. I will go into Warren County court in the morning for a contempt charge. I am expecting to be arrested and … Continue reading

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There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading

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Why are you Selling my Bicycle Daddy?

Throughout the summer, we held yard sales (aka “junk” sales) to raise money for basic necessities. Things such as utilities, food and gas could not be purchased without us selling our prized possessions for pennies on the dollar. Up for … Continue reading

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An Ohio Aunt’s Plea for Help

I just recently received the following email: My brother in law is being forced to pay $2000.00 a month in child support and alimony out of a $3000.00 check. His lawyer isn’t working out and as an aunt I’m heartbroken … Continue reading

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French Father Stages Hunger Strike in Protest to the International Child Abduction from France to Warren County Ohio

I have been corresponding with this French Father for months now. Warren County Ohio is in desperate need of magistrates and judges who understand and comprehend that fathers, just like mothers, are an integral part of a child’s life. We … Continue reading

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2009 Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council Public Forums

Ohio statutes mandate that an “Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council” convene once every four years with the purpose of reviewing Ohio’s child support related statutes, and recommending appropriate changes to Ohio’s legislatures. Personally, I feel that in years past, … Continue reading

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Man Still Paying Child Support to Deceased Wife

EDITORS NOTE: I am not the author of the article below, I found it while doing some research this evening. It was written in November 2006. I decided to post it here as it confirms what I wrote in today’s … Continue reading

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What Ohio Doesn’t want the Public to Know about its “Child Support” Collections Efforts

The pleas we receive for help are incessant. The voice mails fill up all available memory, the emails requesting assistance are endless. Some cries for help entail pages of very disturbing and intimate details about the person’s situation; Others are … Continue reading

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Incarcerated Ohio Father’s Ten-Month Old Son is Violently Abused Yet Children’s Services Refuses to Act

The following is a letter I received from an incarcerated Ohio father: To whom it may concern, My name is xxxxxxx xxxxxxx. I am 24 years old and a father who needs help. I’m not sure who exactly to address … Continue reading

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The Hamilton County CSEA Seizes $4200 in Tax Returns but Refuses to Credit my Support Obligation

I was involuntarily separated from my employer in December 2007. From January 2008 through May 2008, I had no income and therefore could not pay my $900.00/mo child support obligation; A monthly obligation that I am ordered to pay despite … Continue reading

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My Response to the Darke County CSEA’s Indictment of a Father with a Broken Neck

Dear Ms. Ratliff and Mr. Schinke: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights has been petitioned by Mr. Michael Sxxxxx to intervene on his behalf in the matter of his child support order originating in Darke County Ohio, and that is currently … Continue reading

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Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

The Ohio Father’s email copied below is beyond sickening. It’s further proof that Ohio’s Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) could not care less about the best interests of our children, while their profits on Title-IV child support collections remain their … Continue reading

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Letter from an Incarcerated Ohio Father

In an Ohio Inmate Letter Dated May 19, 2008 I received the following: Dear Mr. Fantetti, First of all, I apologize if I have misspelled your name. I was given this information by another inmate at C.R.C. I am currently … Continue reading

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Update: The Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency Seizes $920 More from an Innocent Mother

My wife just informed me that $920 of her, tax rebate check authorized by President Bush has been seized by the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) and is to be given to my former wife to satisfy my … Continue reading

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Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency Seizes an Innocent Wife’s Tax Return

Please understand that Ohio Council for Fathers Rights (OCFFR) is not about me or my case, it’s about all of Ohio’s innocent parents and children who are regularly victimized and terrorized by Ohio’s 88 county Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs.) … Continue reading

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French Father Staging Hunger Strike to Protest the International Abduction of His Twin Boys to Warren County Ohio

Following is a letter I received from a French Father whose wife kidnapped their children while he was at work (in France) and took them to Warren County Ohio. Not surprisingly, his repeated requests to have his children returned to … Continue reading

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Understanding Ohio’s Calloused Indifference Towards Laying Waste to People’s Lives

Following are questions repeatedly asked of me by many of Ohio’s non-custodial, child support paying parents who are scared, confused, and suffering because of Ohio’s inhumane and hateful punitive child support collection practices. “Why does the state of Ohio destroy … Continue reading

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Darke County Ohio CSEA Indicts Father with Broken Neck for Criminal Felony Non-Support

David Rose, the innocent Ohio Council for Fathers Rights member wrongly incarcerated after being convicted by the perjured testimony of a Darke County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) employee wrote in a recent letter to me: “There’s another Father imprisoned … Continue reading

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An Ohio Custodial Father is Forced to Pay Child Support on Children in His Custody

“I have custody of both children and cannot get my child support obligation stopped.”
–Ohio Custodial Father Continue reading

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The Darke County Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency Wrongfully Incarcerated this Innocent Child’s Father

The Darke County Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) whose Director is Gracie Ratliff, wrongfully assisted in the conviction of Dustin Rose’s Father,  David Rose,  of criminal felony non-support through a CSEA employee’s false testimony. As a result of the … Continue reading

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