Category Archives: Child Support

These are accounts from myself and others that clearly demonstrate the abusive and hateful nature of the “Child Support” system. A system that claims to act only “in the best interests” of the children whom it purports to protect.
You decide for yourself if what’s contained herein is in a child’s best interests. Remember, for every father that’s incarcerated, there’s probably one or more children who lay in bed at night crying and longing for that jailed father they so dearly miss. Additionally, and in Ohio, a child whose father is incarcerated in Ohio for a “child support” related offense is not allowed to visit their father in prison. This is because the child(ren) is the “victim” of the father’s crime; crimes such as being unemployed in the worst economy since the Great Depression. Keep in mind that while unemployed, the State of Ohio most likely suspended that father’s driver’s and professional licenses to “prevent” him from working, then jailed him for not being able to work. That’s the reality of the “child support” system in Ohio. Do you ever hear of it being reported in the media?
Additionally, for every father who’s driven into bankruptcy and foreclosure by an unjustified and financially crippling child support order, there’s a child(ren) whose father is now homeless and prohibited by Ohio Courts from seeing his children because he has no home for them to visit him in. And were constantly told, that the aforementioned is “in the best interests of the children.” Really?

Father Paying “Child Support” for Teenage Daughter Living with Him

The following is just another example of how ridiculous and deceptively stupid the phrase “in the best interests of the child” can be at times. The email below, posted with the permission of the father who sent it to me, … Continue reading

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Blogging will Resume

To my valued readers, First and foremost, please accept my sincere and humble apology for having the OCFFR Blog offline for as long as it was. For reasons I’ll explain later, there are certain situations that necessitate doing so. It’s … Continue reading

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Ohio’s Abuse of a Loving Father’s Daughter Via “Child Support”

The story below was posted as a comment by a father named Corey in April 2012. Corey’s story is very moving and clearly illustrates how the State of Ohio’s draconian and very abusive “child support” tactics actually harm children. That’s … Continue reading

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Why?

“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading

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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers

To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading

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Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response)  to the front page  OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading

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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children)  and often times … Continue reading

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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading

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To DeadbeatDead: Please Don’t Take Your Own Life Your Children Need You

If you are the father below who posted the following comment on 4/16, I implore you to please contact me. I am so sorry that I did not understand that which you said when I read your comment the first … Continue reading

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Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program

Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading

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Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading

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Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone

Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio.  However, I  decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading

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The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading

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Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?

This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction,  they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading

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Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading Continue reading

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Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments

The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a re-post of blog entry from May 10, 2011 The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected at all cost, and … Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading Continue reading

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Warren County Father with Mental Disorder Jailed for Failing to Pay “Child Support”

Mr. Fantetti I am glad that I have stumbled upon your website. Although i may be a little late. I will go into Warren County court in the morning for a contempt charge. I am expecting to be arrested and … Continue reading

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The Athens County CSEA wants to “Serve You” Better

I’m unwilling to waste the required time to point out every stupid Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency’s (CSEA) website I stumble upon. However, after I happened upon the Athens County Ohio CSEA’s website, I couldn’t refrain from pointing out the … Continue reading

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Moria Weir of the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency is in Contempt of Court

I’ve blogged repeatedly about my ongoing “child support” overpayment that was nearly $7,500 give or take a few hundred. To briefly explain;  the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) continues to deduct my “child support” obligation from my every … Continue reading

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Are “Single Moms by Choice” Heroines or Villains?

Before proceeding, I want to clarify the following; This article is not directed at mothers who divorced for legitimate reasons or are single through no fault of their own. It’s directed at those “child support moms” who either chose to … Continue reading

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Ohio Removes Web Pages after We’ve Linked to them

Please note that I’ve linked to various web pages on the State of Ohio’s web sites in many posts I’ve made to this blog.  I’m discovering that Ohio has since removed the specific portions (from their website) that I had referenced … Continue reading

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A Repost of a My Response to Another Commenter’s Post

Below is my re-posted response to another commenter who posted here: Given my situation has changed considerably since I made that original blog entry in August of 2008, I wanted to point out as I have below, that the State … Continue reading

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There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading

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Job Seeking Ohio Father Fears Felony Indictment for Being Unemployed

At a fatherhood summit in Ohio about 18 months ago, I unleashed a verbal tirade directed at Ohio’s Deputy Child Support Director at that time. I demanded an immediate moratorium on Ohio’s felony indictment of fathers for criminal nonsupport. That, … Continue reading

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Blogging about Ohio’s Increasingly Abusive and Deceptive “Child Support” Enforcement Agency

Please accept my humble apology for the excessively lengthy lapse in blogging. Please know that my efforts to expose the heartless and deviant corruption of Ohio’s child support system does and will continue on behalf of all fathers and children. … Continue reading

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Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

1/2/11 EDITOR’S NOTE: Please note that the State of Ohio has removed their website links that I’ve referenced in the previously published article below. This is not uncommon for them to do, as they regularly remove web pages on their … Continue reading

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Why are you Selling my Bicycle Daddy?

Throughout the summer, we held yard sales (aka “junk” sales) to raise money for basic necessities. Things such as utilities, food and gas could not be purchased without us selling our prized possessions for pennies on the dollar. Up for … Continue reading

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Military Father Homeless and Without Money for Food or Gasoline

I don’t generally post these types of emails as it’s indicative of most fathers who pay child support; they are bankrupt, without money to eat or to pay bills and many are homeless due to outrageously high and grossly unjust … Continue reading

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Dad Who Attempted Suicide is Declared “Voluntarily Underemployed” for Child Support Purposes

This is one of the most sickening and inhumane cases of child “support” abuse I’ve ever seen or heard of. Laconia New Hampshire voters have a moral obligation to vote Family Court Judge Lucinda Sadler off the bench, and that … Continue reading

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The Montgomery County Child Support Enforcement Agency’s Shameful Albeit Very Public Display of Misandry

If I were to write about the rampant misandry that’s proudly championed by Ohio’s 88 county Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), I would go on, and on, and on… That said, child support ‘enforcement’ and misandry are synonymous, simply assumed, … Continue reading

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Poor Father Incarcerated by the Montgomery Co OH CSEA for not Paying Child Support for his Late Daughter

I attended the Ohio Child Support Guidelines Council 2009 Forum on August 18, 2008 in Hamilton County. I was more than disappointed at the lack of public attendance (considering how well-advertised the forum was) but will save those comments for … Continue reading

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An Inmate Letter Received on August 4, 2008

To Council, My name is XXXXX XXXXXXX and this is my second letter I am writing to you concerning my children, and my rights as a father. I, for the past few years, and in the past, have been paying … Continue reading

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2009 Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council Public Forums

Ohio statutes mandate that an “Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council” convene once every four years with the purpose of reviewing Ohio’s child support related statutes, and recommending appropriate changes to Ohio’s legislatures. Personally, I feel that in years past, … Continue reading

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Man Still Paying Child Support to Deceased Wife

EDITORS NOTE: I am not the author of the article below, I found it while doing some research this evening. It was written in November 2006. I decided to post it here as it confirms what I wrote in today’s … Continue reading

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What Ohio Doesn’t want the Public to Know about its “Child Support” Collections Efforts

The pleas we receive for help are incessant. The voice mails fill up all available memory, the emails requesting assistance are endless. Some cries for help entail pages of very disturbing and intimate details about the person’s situation; Others are … Continue reading

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The Hamilton County CSEA Seizes $4200 in Tax Returns but Refuses to Credit my Support Obligation

I was involuntarily separated from my employer in December 2007. From January 2008 through May 2008, I had no income and therefore could not pay my $900.00/mo child support obligation; A monthly obligation that I am ordered to pay despite … Continue reading

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An Ohio Attorney Who Claims that Child Support Obligations are “Always” Modifiable

The letter below was submitted by me (Tony Fantetti) via a law firm’s web site user-input form. On that site, an Ohio attorney claims that child support is “always” modifiable if there exists a material change of circumstance for the … Continue reading

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Child Support Collections have Surely Gone Mad but were their Intentions Good or Bad

As we approach our one year anniversary, we are excited to report that some of our websites receive nearly 25,000 hits a month, as word of Ohio Council for Fathers Rights (formerly known as Ohio Fathers for Justice) literally spreads … Continue reading

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