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Category Archives: Child Support
Father Paying “Child Support” for Teenage Daughter Living with Him
The following is just another example of how ridiculous and deceptively stupid the phrase “in the best interests of the child” can be at times. The email below, posted with the permission of the father who sent it to me, … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Emails from Others, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?"
Tagged child support enforcement, child support moms, csea, democrat, extortion, father, fraud, greed, mother, noncustodial parent, ohio, pols, republican, single mothers by choice, state, theft
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Ohio’s Abuse of a Loving Father’s Daughter Via “Child Support”
The story below was posted as a comment by a father named Corey in April 2012. Corey’s story is very moving and clearly illustrates how the State of Ohio’s draconian and very abusive “child support” tactics actually harm children. That’s … Continue reading
Why?
“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Miscellaneous, Suicide, Uncategorized
Tagged anger, child support, csea, depression, despair, emotionally, fathers, fear, hell, hopelessness, injustice, loneliness, madness, ohio, suicide, torment, war, women
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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without
The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children) and often times … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Emails from Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged actor, best interest, bitterness, child support, child support mom, court, csea, csm, family, girlfriend, hateful, hell hath no fury, leech, love, mom, ohio, other woman, scorned, theater, travel
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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many
A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Emails from Others, Employment and Unemployment, Incarceration and Prison, Miscellaneous, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Single Moms, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged bankrupt, bankruptcy, child support, children, court, csea, csm, dad, family, gas, hopelessness, lazy, mom, ohio, penniless, single, thieves, welfare
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Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program
Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Single Moms "by Choice", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged bridge, child, children, college, csea, deadbeat, deadbeat dad, democrat, Detroit News, eat, ebt, fathers, food stamps, limbaugh, Maura Corrigan, michigan, mommy, Moria Weir, odjfs, ohio, Rep David Agema, republican, Ronald Panioto, rush, single mothers, state, support, war on women, welfare
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Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation
Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Custody Issues, Morality and Religion, Single Moms, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized
Tagged addict, agency, child, child support, csea, deadbeat, enforcemnt, moral, morality, ohio, single mom, super mom, support, visitation
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Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone
Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio. However, I decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Miscellaneous, Single Moms, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized
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Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?
This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction, they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Title-IV D of the Social Security Act, Uncategorized
Tagged agency, bridges, brown, child, csea, directors, employment, franklin, Kevin Filiatraut, Kevin R Filiatraut, kim newsom, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parent, security, social, support, susan
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Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments
The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading
Warren County Father with Mental Disorder Jailed for Failing to Pay “Child Support”
Mr. Fantetti I am glad that I have stumbled upon your website. Although i may be a little late. I will go into Warren County court in the morning for a contempt charge. I am expecting to be arrested and … Continue reading
Posted in Emails from Others, Incarceration and Prison, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized, Warren County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA)
Tagged agency, child, county, csea, enforcement, ohio, support, warren
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The Athens County CSEA wants to “Serve You” Better
I’m unwilling to waste the required time to point out every stupid Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency’s (CSEA) website I stumble upon. However, after I happened upon the Athens County Ohio CSEA’s website, I couldn’t refrain from pointing out the … Continue reading
Moria Weir of the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency is in Contempt of Court
I’ve blogged repeatedly about my ongoing “child support” overpayment that was nearly $7,500 give or take a few hundred. To briefly explain; the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) continues to deduct my “child support” obligation from my every … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), National Child Support Enforcement Association (NCSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA)
Tagged agency, child, contempt, county, court, csea, enforcement, hamilton, Moria, ohio, support, Weir
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Are “Single Moms by Choice” Heroines or Villains?
Before proceeding, I want to clarify the following; This article is not directed at mothers who divorced for legitimate reasons or are single through no fault of their own. It’s directed at those “child support moms” who either chose to … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized
Tagged agency, child, choice, csea, divorce, enforcement, false, fathers, federal, kim newsom bridges, lie, moms, ohio, order, protective, restraining, single, support
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Ohio Removes Web Pages after We’ve Linked to them
Please note that I’ve linked to various web pages on the State of Ohio’s web sites in many posts I’ve made to this blog. I’m discovering that Ohio has since removed the specific portions (from their website) that I had referenced … Continue reading
A Repost of a My Response to Another Commenter’s Post
Below is my re-posted response to another commenter who posted here: Given my situation has changed considerably since I made that original blog entry in August of 2008, I wanted to point out as I have below, that the State … Continue reading
There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare
It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Suicide, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged agency, child support, county, csea, darke, enforcement, fathers, hamilton, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, nightmare, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parents, story, suicide
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Job Seeking Ohio Father Fears Felony Indictment for Being Unemployed
At a fatherhood summit in Ohio about 18 months ago, I unleashed a verbal tirade directed at Ohio’s Deputy Child Support Director at that time. I demanded an immediate moratorium on Ohio’s felony indictment of fathers for criminal nonsupport. That, … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Employment and Unemployment, These are "Deadbeats?", Uncategorized
Tagged abusive, agency, child support, columbus, csea, deceptive, depression, economy, enforcement, felony, indictment, job, jobs and family services, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, unemployement
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Blogging about Ohio’s Increasingly Abusive and Deceptive “Child Support” Enforcement Agency
Please accept my humble apology for the excessively lengthy lapse in blogging. Please know that my efforts to expose the heartless and deviant corruption of Ohio’s child support system does and will continue on behalf of all fathers and children. … Continue reading
Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Uncategorized
Tagged abusive, act, agency, bill, child, child support enforcement, csea, deceptive, enforecement, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, ocda, ohio, protection, story, support
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Why are you Selling my Bicycle Daddy?
Throughout the summer, we held yard sales (aka “junk” sales) to raise money for basic necessities. Things such as utilities, food and gas could not be purchased without us selling our prized possessions for pennies on the dollar. Up for … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support Hurts, Employment and Unemployment, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), These are "Deadbeats?", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged act, agency, association, bicycle, bill, child, county, cuyahoga, daddy, darke, directors, enforcement, hamilton, kim newsom bridges, montgomery, nscea, ocda, odjfs, ohio, protection, selling, support
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The Montgomery County Child Support Enforcement Agency’s Shameful Albeit Very Public Display of Misandry
If I were to write about the rampant misandry that’s proudly championed by Ohio’s 88 county Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), I would go on, and on, and on… That said, child support ‘enforcement’ and misandry are synonymous, simply assumed, … Continue reading
An Inmate Letter Received on August 4, 2008
To Council, My name is XXXXX XXXXXXX and this is my second letter I am writing to you concerning my children, and my rights as a father. I, for the past few years, and in the past, have been paying … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Incarcerated Fathers, Incarceration and Prison, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, The Voices of Others
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2009 Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council Public Forums
Ohio statutes mandate that an “Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council” convene once every four years with the purpose of reviewing Ohio’s child support related statutes, and recommending appropriate changes to Ohio’s legislatures. Personally, I feel that in years past, … Continue reading
What Ohio Doesn’t want the Public to Know about its “Child Support” Collections Efforts
The pleas we receive for help are incessant. The voice mails fill up all available memory, the emails requesting assistance are endless. Some cries for help entail pages of very disturbing and intimate details about the person’s situation; Others are … Continue reading
Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, The State of Ohio, These are "Deadbeats?", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?"
Tagged agency, child support, county, csea, dan cade, darke, enforcement, fathers, hamilton county, kim newsom bridges, mallot, montgomery, ncsea, odjfs, ohio, shinke
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The Hamilton County CSEA Seizes $4200 in Tax Returns but Refuses to Credit my Support Obligation
I was involuntarily separated from my employer in December 2007. From January 2008 through May 2008, I had no income and therefore could not pay my $900.00/mo child support obligation; A monthly obligation that I am ordered to pay despite … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?"
Tagged adult protection, case management, child protection, child support, Cincinnati, disability assistance, food stamps, Hamilton County Job & Family Services, HCJFS, Medicaid, ohio, subsidized child care, temporary cash assistance
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An Ohio Attorney Who Claims that Child Support Obligations are “Always” Modifiable
The letter below was submitted by me (Tony Fantetti) via a law firm’s web site user-input form. On that site, an Ohio attorney claims that child support is “always” modifiable if there exists a material change of circumstance for the … Continue reading
Posted in Attorneys; Retain or Refrain?, Child Support, Uncategorized
Tagged attorney, child support, csea, HCJFS, modify, odjfs, ohio
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Child Support Collections have Surely Gone Mad but were their Intentions Good or Bad
As we approach our one year anniversary, we are excited to report that some of our websites receive nearly 25,000 hits a month, as word of Ohio Council for Fathers Rights (formerly known as Ohio Fathers for Justice) literally spreads … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses
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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers
To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading →