Category Archives: Child Support Hurts

Unconscionable stories about Ohio’s child support system and the abuses of non-custodial mothers and father by Ohio’s courts as well as Ohio’s Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA). The worst victims, are the innocent and precious children that are said to “benefit” from the out-of-control “child support” bureaucracy.

Blogging will Resume

To my valued readers, First and foremost, please accept my sincere and humble apology for having the OCFFR Blog offline for as long as it was. For reasons I’ll explain later, there are certain situations that necessitate doing so. It’s … Continue reading

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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers

To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading

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Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response)  to the front page  OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading

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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children)  and often times … Continue reading

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To DeadbeatDead: Please Don’t Take Your Own Life Your Children Need You

If you are the father below who posted the following comment on 4/16, I implore you to please contact me. I am so sorry that I did not understand that which you said when I read your comment the first … Continue reading

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The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading

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Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading Continue reading

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A Repost of a My Response to Another Commenter’s Post

Below is my re-posted response to another commenter who posted here: Given my situation has changed considerably since I made that original blog entry in August of 2008, I wanted to point out as I have below, that the State … Continue reading

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There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading

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Why are you Selling my Bicycle Daddy?

Throughout the summer, we held yard sales (aka “junk” sales) to raise money for basic necessities. Things such as utilities, food and gas could not be purchased without us selling our prized possessions for pennies on the dollar. Up for … Continue reading

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Military Father Homeless and Without Money for Food or Gasoline

I don’t generally post these types of emails as it’s indicative of most fathers who pay child support; they are bankrupt, without money to eat or to pay bills and many are homeless due to outrageously high and grossly unjust … Continue reading

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An Inmate Letter Received on August 4, 2008

To Council, My name is XXXXX XXXXXXX and this is my second letter I am writing to you concerning my children, and my rights as a father. I, for the past few years, and in the past, have been paying … Continue reading

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2009 Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council Public Forums

Ohio statutes mandate that an “Ohio Child Support Guidelines Advisory Council” convene once every four years with the purpose of reviewing Ohio’s child support related statutes, and recommending appropriate changes to Ohio’s legislatures. Personally, I feel that in years past, … Continue reading

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Child Support Collections have Surely Gone Mad but were their Intentions Good or Bad

As we approach our one year anniversary, we are excited to report that some of our websites receive nearly 25,000 hits a month, as word of Ohio Council for Fathers Rights (formerly known as Ohio Fathers for Justice) literally spreads … Continue reading

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Letter from an Incarcerated Ohio Father

In an Ohio Inmate Letter Dated May 19, 2008 I received the following: Dear Mr. Fantetti, First of all, I apologize if I have misspelled your name. I was given this information by another inmate at C.R.C. I am currently … Continue reading

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Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency Seizes an Innocent Wife’s Tax Return

Please understand that Ohio Council for Fathers Rights (OCFFR) is not about me or my case, it’s about all of Ohio’s innocent parents and children who are regularly victimized and terrorized by Ohio’s 88 county Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs.) … Continue reading

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Understanding Ohio’s Calloused Indifference Towards Laying Waste to People’s Lives

Following are questions repeatedly asked of me by many of Ohio’s non-custodial, child support paying parents who are scared, confused, and suffering because of Ohio’s inhumane and hateful punitive child support collection practices. “Why does the state of Ohio destroy … Continue reading

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