Category Archives: The Voices of Others

Contained herein are the stories of others who lie you and your children are trapped in the horrific nightmare euphemistically known as “Family Court”, Domestic Relations, Juvenile Court etc.

Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”

The following is my emailed response to an Ohio father who moved here from Georgia and had custody through a Georgia court, of his two children whom he raised alone, and without any assistance from the mother of his children … Continue reading

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Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading

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Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone

Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio.  However, I  decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading

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Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading

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The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading

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Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading Continue reading

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Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments

The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading Continue reading

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Don’t Know if You Can Help

I received the following via email: ___________________________________ Haven’t seen my now 5 year old son in over 13 months. Now have a 3 month old daughter. I’m low income and have been calling ABLE since Oct. but told to call … Continue reading

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Another Perspective

Date: Mon, 04 Apr 2011 19:07:04 -0700 [07:07:04 PM PDT] From: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org To: MXXXXX@XXXXX.com Subject: Re: Another perspective MXXXXXX Thanks for taking the time to write me and share your perspective wth me. Your email brings up many issues that … Continue reading

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Email Submission: My Ex is Withholding Visitation what can I do?

K****, I could write a book as an answer to “What can I do?” Regardless, the outcome in each and every situation could possibly be the same, nothing changes. Nevertheless, you are in the exact same situation as **** ** … Continue reading

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Psychological Warfare

My fiance and I have just completed one of the most horrific custody cases I have ever witnessed. My fiance is a loving father who has had his son eleven hours a day, five days a week, for the last … Continue reading

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Police Indifference Towards a Custodial Father Regarding Non-Custodial Parental Abduction

We received the following plea for help from an out-of-state father a few hours ago: “My son was abducted to your state and the police barely will help me…I have sole legal custody and have an idea of where he … Continue reading

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An Ohio Aunt’s Plea for Help

I just recently received the following email: My brother in law is being forced to pay $2000.00 a month in child support and alimony out of a $3000.00 check. His lawyer isn’t working out and as an aunt I’m heartbroken … Continue reading

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The Constitutional Right to be a Father, Really

Posted by minneapolisfalling I am writing here for the first time and i wish to commend the efforts of Tony and those involved with this complex issue. I probably would NOT have so much understanding or even interest in the … Continue reading

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An Inmate Letter Received on August 4, 2008

To Council, My name is XXXXX XXXXXXX and this is my second letter I am writing to you concerning my children, and my rights as a father. I, for the past few years, and in the past, have been paying … Continue reading

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French Father Stages Hunger Strike in Protest to the International Child Abduction from France to Warren County Ohio

I have been corresponding with this French Father for months now. Warren County Ohio is in desperate need of magistrates and judges who understand and comprehend that fathers, just like mothers, are an integral part of a child’s life. We … Continue reading

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Incarcerated Ohio Father’s Ten-Month Old Son is Violently Abused Yet Children’s Services Refuses to Act

The following is a letter I received from an incarcerated Ohio father: To whom it may concern, My name is xxxxxxx xxxxxxx. I am 24 years old and a father who needs help. I’m not sure who exactly to address … Continue reading

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My Response to the Darke County CSEA’s Indictment of a Father with a Broken Neck

Dear Ms. Ratliff and Mr. Schinke: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights has been petitioned by Mr. Michael Sxxxxx to intervene on his behalf in the matter of his child support order originating in Darke County Ohio, and that is currently … Continue reading

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Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

The Ohio Father’s email copied below is beyond sickening. It’s further proof that Ohio’s Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) could not care less about the best interests of our children, while their profits on Title-IV child support collections remain their … Continue reading

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Letter from an Incarcerated Ohio Father

In an Ohio Inmate Letter Dated May 19, 2008 I received the following: Dear Mr. Fantetti, First of all, I apologize if I have misspelled your name. I was given this information by another inmate at C.R.C. I am currently … Continue reading

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French Father Staging Hunger Strike to Protest the International Abduction of His Twin Boys to Warren County Ohio

Following is a letter I received from a French Father whose wife kidnapped their children while he was at work (in France) and took them to Warren County Ohio. Not surprisingly, his repeated requests to have his children returned to … Continue reading

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Darke County Ohio CSEA Indicts Father with Broken Neck for Criminal Felony Non-Support

David Rose, the innocent Ohio Council for Fathers Rights member wrongly incarcerated after being convicted by the perjured testimony of a Darke County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) employee wrote in a recent letter to me: “There’s another Father imprisoned … Continue reading

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An Ohio Custodial Father is Forced to Pay Child Support on Children in His Custody

“I have custody of both children and cannot get my child support obligation stopped.”
–Ohio Custodial Father Continue reading

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The Darke County Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency Wrongfully Incarcerated this Innocent Child’s Father

The Darke County Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) whose Director is Gracie Ratliff, wrongfully assisted in the conviction of Dustin Rose’s Father,  David Rose,  of criminal felony non-support through a CSEA employee’s false testimony. As a result of the … Continue reading

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