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Happy Fathers Day
Today is Father’s Day, a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading
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Tagged child support, children, dad, Fathers day, single moms
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A Diabolically Evil “Mother” Locks a Loving Father Out of his Sons Lives
Posted below is an exchange between a woman named LaTashia, and myself, about her husband who has two sons with an ex that retains full custody of them. This is yet another example that shows just how broken Ohio’s “Child … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized
Tagged child support enforcement agency, child support mom, contempt, csm, custody, evil, extortion, father, fatherlessnes, hateful, judge, juvenile, ohio, PAS, prose, scam, single mother, visitation
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To Mr. Kevin Eslinger why I Removed your Comment
Mr. Eslinger, In the 12 years I’ve been doing this, I’ve deleted only two comments on this blog. I’ve spent thousands of dollars of my own money, and put thousands of hours of my own time into helping others free of … Continue reading
OCFFR Blog Temporarily Going Offline
To my readers, I’m once again, and for the second time in six years, facing unemployment at a time when my web hosting fees are due. At best I’ll be late in paying them, so this site will be suspended, … Continue reading
The Horrific Costs of the Balkanization and Pimping of Men by Pols and the Media
This post is really out of character for me. So much so, that I wasn’t going to post it. However I must, because the root of men’s problems (especially single or divorced father’s) is found in the contemptible treatment of … Continue reading
Posted in Misandry, Miscellaneous, Uncategorized
Tagged agency, balkanization, camping, child, csea, Daniel Rodrigo Saenz, enforcement, execute, family, fathers, homeless, james boyd, mens, misandry, misogynist, misogyny, murder, odjfs, ohio, P&G, pimp, police, pols, Proctor and Gamble, rights, services, support, women
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Happy Fathers Day to all Dads
Happy Father’s Day to all of you dads out there! Today is certainly a day to celebrate the many blessings that dads bring to their children as well as those blessings that they bring to us! Children and wives are … Continue reading
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Tagged child support, chris gardner, csea, dads, divorce, Dr. Ben Carson, Fathers day, John Hopkins, ocsea, odjfs, ohio, ohio child support enforecement agency, single
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P&G’s Olympic-Sized Slap to all Father’s Faces Wins the Gold for Global Corporate Paternal Contempt
Congratulations to Cincinnati based Proctor and Gamble (P&G) for their slap to the faces of all dad’s around the world by once again willfully ignoring the contributions that loving fathers make to not only the world’s Olympians, but to the … Continue reading
Posted in Misandry, Miscellaneous, Uncategorized
Tagged 2014, boycott, Cincinnati, contempt, dads, Fathers day, headquarters, misandry, moms, OH, olympics, P&G, Procter and Gamble
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Why?
“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Miscellaneous, Suicide, Uncategorized
Tagged anger, child support, csea, depression, despair, emotionally, fathers, fear, hell, hopelessness, injustice, loneliness, madness, ohio, suicide, torment, war, women
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Happy Fathers Day to all Dads!
Today is Father’s Day, a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading
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Tagged absent, blessed, blessing, bond, child, child support, children, court, daddy, dads, depression, emotions, fathers, Fathers day, single moms
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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without
The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children) and often times … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Emails from Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged actor, best interest, bitterness, child support, child support mom, court, csea, csm, family, girlfriend, hateful, hell hath no fury, leech, love, mom, ohio, other woman, scorned, theater, travel
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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many
A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Emails from Others, Employment and Unemployment, Incarceration and Prison, Miscellaneous, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Single Moms, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged bankrupt, bankruptcy, child support, children, court, csea, csm, dad, family, gas, hopelessness, lazy, mom, ohio, penniless, single, thieves, welfare
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Single Working Mother Hatefully Denigrates all Single Fathers who’ve Fallen Behind on their “Child Support” Obligations
I generally don’t waste the precious time that I did “debating” people such as the contentious woman with whom I had the conversation with here. However, her unwarranted attack on myself and all single dads with her snide and hateful … Continue reading
Not so Fast $6,000,000 Man Steve Austin Katie Holmes is Ohio’s $10,000,000 “Child Support Mom”
“Child support mom” (CSM), thief, daddy-welfare recipient, or financial dependent; which best describes Katie Holmes in using the courts to extort $10 million in “child support” from Tom Cruise over the next 12 years “for” daughter Suri? All of them. … Continue reading
Posted in Celebrities, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Single Moms "by Choice", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged child, child support mom, condom, csm, custody, dependent, divorce, immoral, katie holmes, ohio, sex, sperm, support, suri, theft, tom cruise
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I Apologize to My Readers for the Long Period of Silence which Sadly Included Father’s Day
Please accept my humble and sincere apology for the long period of silence through which no posts were made to the blog, and likewise I was unable to return phone calls and emails. Although I won’t go into specifics, the … Continue reading
Posted in Child Abuse, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized
Tagged child, children, court, divorce, fathers, moral, single mom, single mom by choice, support, visitation
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The Fading and Fizzling Effects of Mark Byron’s Cincinnati “Shooting Star” Like Case
Just two short months ago, the Mark Byron case was a world-wide internet sensation that for a very brief moment in time, shined an incredibly bright spotlight on the throes and abuses that most fathers (both custodial and noncustodial) routinely … Continue reading
Posted in Hamilton County, Judges and Magistrates, Misandry, Politics, Uncategorized
Tagged apology, Cincinnati, contempt, court, custody, divorce, Elizabeth Ford, facebook, father, free speech, Judge Sieve, Magistrate Myers, Mark Byron, ohio
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Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program
Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Single Moms "by Choice", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged bridge, child, children, college, csea, deadbeat, deadbeat dad, democrat, Detroit News, eat, ebt, fathers, food stamps, limbaugh, Maura Corrigan, michigan, mommy, Moria Weir, odjfs, ohio, Rep David Agema, republican, Ronald Panioto, rush, single mothers, state, support, war on women, welfare
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Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”
The following is my emailed response to an Ohio father who moved here from Georgia and had custody through a Georgia court, of his two children whom he raised alone, and without any assistance from the mother of his children … Continue reading
Posted in Emails from Others, Miscellaneous, The State of Ohio, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized
Tagged agency, child, corrupt, court, csea, custody, enforcement, father, georgia, mother, odjfs, ohio, support
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Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation
Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Custody Issues, Morality and Religion, Single Moms, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized
Tagged addict, agency, child, child support, csea, deadbeat, enforcemnt, moral, morality, ohio, single mom, super mom, support, visitation
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Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone
Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio. However, I decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading
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Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves
First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support Moms (CSMs), Humor Satire Sarcasm and Cynicism, Misandry, Miscellaneous, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged agency, child, child support mom, children, csea, csm, dad, daddy, enforcement, fathers, mom, mommy, odjfs, ohio, support, villain, visitation, welfare
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Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?
This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction, they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading
Posted in Child Support, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Title-IV D of the Social Security Act, Uncategorized
Tagged agency, bridges, brown, child, csea, directors, employment, franklin, Kevin Filiatraut, Kevin R Filiatraut, kim newsom, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parent, security, social, support, susan
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Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments
The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading
Only One Person Can Help Everyone Overcome “The System”
The exchange posted below is one between myself and a father who recently commented here on the Blog. I feel it’s imperative to repost it here because until noncustodial parents (NCPs) begin to very carefully intellectualize, comprehend, and finally, act Continue reading Continue reading
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Tagged assistance, child, csea, fathers, help, odjfs, ohio, ohio father's rights, rights, support, visitation
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Ohio Moves to Separate Children from Fathers by Defunding Fatherhood Program
Since founding this organization in 2007, I’ve always maintained that Ohio’s highly abusive (and as alleged in this recently filed lawsuit; fraudulent and wrongfully collected) child support collections efforts aren’t effected “in the best interests of the children” as the Continue reading Continue reading
Posted in Fathers Rights Advocates Organizations and Advocacy, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized
Tagged agency, child, child support, csea, enforcement, kim newsom bridges, odjfs, ohio, support
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Why The System is as it is and Won’t Change…Yet
They’re endless, “about me,” all that matters, and the reason Ohio’s “Family Court” system and the “Child Support” Enforcement Agency (CSEA) are as they are. They truly believe their situation to be unique, the most important of all, and deserving … Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading
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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint
The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected at all cost, and not broken and infringed upon so states like Ohio can “earn” a profit … Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading
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Protecting and Provisioning for Children as the End of “The Age of America” Dawns
Despite having been aware of the possibility (for quite some time) of “The Age of America” coming to an end, I’m still somewhat surprised to see this being reported by the media. Additionally, and since I saved this post to a … Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading → Continue reading
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Received Via Email from an Ohio Mother in Defense of Her Incarcerated Son
Date: Thu, 21 Apr 2011 07:58:23 -0400 [04/21/2011 04:58:23 AM PDT] From: Cathy Xxxxxx <XXXXXXXX@zoomtown.com> To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: please help Hi Tony, I am writing to you for my son, he doesn’t know that I’m doing this but we all … Continue reading → Continue reading
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Received Via Email from a Hamilton County Father
Date: Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:17:03 -0400 [03:17:03 PM PDT] From: Txxxx Xxxxxxx <xxxxxx@gmail.com> To: ‘Tony Fantetti’ <tony.fantetti@ocffr.org> Subject: RE: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights website Hi Tony, Thanks for providing this informative site, organization, and your blog.I’m researching a possible … Continue reading → Continue reading
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My Reasons for Founding Ohio Council for Fathers Rights
After my horrific introduction to Ohio’s “‘Child Support’ Extortion Agency” (CSEA) and Ohio’s Domestic Relations (aka “Family”) Court system, the kaleidoscope through which I viewed life was forever altered, and in a totally unchangeable way. In truth, it’s extremely difficult … Continue reading → Continue reading
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Another Warren County Father Commits Suicide
Recently, a noncustodial father who was being harassed by the Warren County Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency (CSEA) and who hadn’t seen his children in years, committed suicide. Given that he only recently sought help for his accompanying mental illness, … Continue reading → Continue reading
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Received Via Email: Currently a Victim of CSEA
Date: Mon, 4 Apr 2011 19:42:25 -0700 [04/04/2011 07:42:25 PM PDT] From: Axxxxxxxx@xxxxx.com To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: Currently a Victim of CSEA Hello Tony I am desperate and trying to find help, advice or anything in regards to my Child Support … Continue reading → Continue reading
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Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers
To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading →