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Happy Fathers Day

Posted on June 19, 2016 by Tony Fantetti

Today is Father’s Day, a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged child support, children, dad, Fathers day, single moms | Comments Off

A Diabolically Evil “Mother” Locks a Loving Father Out of his Sons Lives

Posted on April 6, 2016 by Tony Fantetti

Posted below is an exchange between a woman named LaTashia, and myself, about her husband who has two sons with an ex that retains full custody of them. This is yet another example that shows just how broken Ohio’s “Child … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged child support enforcement agency, child support mom, contempt, csm, custody, evil, extortion, father, fatherlessnes, hateful, judge, juvenile, ohio, PAS, prose, scam, single mother, visitation | 1 Comment

To Mr. Kevin Eslinger why I Removed your Comment

Posted on February 13, 2016 by Tony Fantetti

Mr. Eslinger, In the 12 years I’ve been doing this, I’ve deleted only two comments on this blog. I’ve spent thousands of dollars of my own money, and put thousands of hours of my own time into helping others free of … Continue reading →

Posted in Suicide, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged child support, child support enforcement agency, csea, domestic relations court, father, juvenile court, ohio, suicide, system | 1 Comment

Blogging will Resume

Posted on November 30, 2015 by Tony Fantetti

To my valued readers, First and foremost, please accept my sincere and humble apology for having the OCFFR Blog offline for as long as it was. For reasons I’ll explain later, there are certain situations that necessitate doing so. It’s … Continue reading →

OCFFR Blog Temporarily Going Offline

Posted on September 21, 2014 by Tony Fantetti

To my readers, I’m once again, and for the second time in six years, facing unemployment at a time when my web hosting fees are due. At best I’ll be late in paying them, so this site will be suspended, … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged blog, ocffr, offline | 1 Comment

The Horrific Costs of the Balkanization and Pimping of Men by Pols and the Media

Posted on August 29, 2014 by Tony Fantetti

This post is really out of character for me. So much so, that I wasn’t going to post it. However I must, because the root of men’s problems (especially single or divorced father’s) is found in the contemptible treatment of … Continue reading →

Posted in Misandry, Miscellaneous, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, balkanization, camping, child, csea, Daniel Rodrigo Saenz, enforcement, execute, family, fathers, homeless, james boyd, mens, misandry, misogynist, misogyny, murder, odjfs, ohio, P&G, pimp, police, pols, Proctor and Gamble, rights, services, support, women | Comments Off

Happy Fathers Day to all Dads

Posted on June 15, 2014 by Tony Fantetti

Happy Father’s Day to all of you dads out there! Today is certainly a day to celebrate the many blessings that dads bring to their children as well as those blessings that they bring to us! Children and wives are … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged child support, chris gardner, csea, dads, divorce, Dr. Ben Carson, Fathers day, John Hopkins, ocsea, odjfs, ohio, ohio child support enforecement agency, single | 3 Comments

P&G’s Olympic-Sized Slap to all Father’s Faces Wins the Gold for Global Corporate Paternal Contempt

Posted on February 16, 2014 by Tony Fantetti

Congratulations to Cincinnati based Proctor and Gamble (P&G) for their slap to the faces of all dad’s around the world by once again willfully ignoring the contributions that loving fathers make to not only the world’s Olympians, but to the … Continue reading →

Posted in Misandry, Miscellaneous, Uncategorized | Tagged 2014, boycott, Cincinnati, contempt, dads, Fathers day, headquarters, misandry, moms, OH, olympics, P&G, Procter and Gamble | Comments Off

Why?

Posted on August 19, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Miscellaneous, Suicide, Uncategorized | Tagged anger, child support, csea, depression, despair, emotionally, fathers, fear, hell, hopelessness, injustice, loneliness, madness, ohio, suicide, torment, war, women | 2 Comments

Why Your Comment Doesn’t Post and My Apology to My Readers

Posted on August 4, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

To my readers, Please understand that what I do with regard to this website, blogging and helping others; mainly fathers, but also their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc as well as non-custodial moms, is on my own time and at … Continue reading →

Happy Fathers Day to all Dads!

Posted on June 16, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged absent, blessed, blessing, bond, child, child support, children, court, daddy, dads, depression, emotions, fathers, Fathers day, single moms | Comments Off

Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

Posted on January 27, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response) to the front page OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading →

The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

Posted on January 14, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children) and often times … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Emails from Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged actor, best interest, bitterness, child support, child support mom, court, csea, csm, family, girlfriend, hateful, hell hath no fury, leech, love, mom, ohio, other woman, scorned, theater, travel | 4 Comments

Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

Posted on December 18, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Emails from Others, Employment and Unemployment, Incarceration and Prison, Miscellaneous, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Single Moms, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged bankrupt, bankruptcy, child support, children, court, csea, csm, dad, family, gas, hopelessness, lazy, mom, ohio, penniless, single, thieves, welfare | 4 Comments

Single Working Mother Hatefully Denigrates all Single Fathers who’ve Fallen Behind on their “Child Support” Obligations

Posted on December 15, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

I generally don’t waste the precious time that I did “debating” people such as the contentious woman with whom I had the conversation with here. However, her unwarranted attack on myself and all single dads with her snide and hateful … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support Moms (CSMs), Misandry, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized | Tagged child support, child-support-moms-csms, contentious, csea, csm, hateful, ohio, single dads, single moms, struggling | 4 Comments

Not so Fast $6,000,000 Man Steve Austin Katie Holmes is Ohio’s $10,000,000 “Child Support Mom”

Posted on July 30, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

“Child support mom” (CSM), thief, daddy-welfare recipient, or financial dependent; which best describes Katie Holmes in using the courts to extort $10 million in “child support” from Tom Cruise over the next 12 years “for” daughter Suri? All of them. … Continue reading →

Posted in Celebrities, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Single Moms "by Choice", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged child, child support mom, condom, csm, custody, dependent, divorce, immoral, katie holmes, ohio, sex, sperm, support, suri, theft, tom cruise | Comments Off

I Apologize to My Readers for the Long Period of Silence which Sadly Included Father’s Day

Posted on July 14, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

Please accept my humble and sincere apology for the long period of silence through which no posts were made to the blog, and likewise I was unable to return phone calls and emails. Although I won’t go into specifics, the … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Abuse, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized | Tagged child, children, court, divorce, fathers, moral, single mom, single mom by choice, support, visitation | Comments Off

To DeadbeatDead: Please Don’t Take Your Own Life Your Children Need You

Posted on May 7, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

If you are the father below who posted the following comment on 4/16, I implore you to please contact me. I am so sorry that I did not understand that which you said when I read your comment the first … Continue reading →

The Fading and Fizzling Effects of Mark Byron’s Cincinnati “Shooting Star” Like Case

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

Just two short months ago, the Mark Byron case was a world-wide internet sensation that for a very brief moment in time, shined an incredibly bright spotlight on the throes and abuses that most fathers (both custodial and noncustodial) routinely … Continue reading →

Posted in Hamilton County, Judges and Magistrates, Misandry, Politics, Uncategorized | Tagged apology, Cincinnati, contempt, court, custody, divorce, Elizabeth Ford, facebook, father, free speech, Judge Sieve, Magistrate Myers, Mark Byron, ohio | Comments Off

Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program

Posted on April 18, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Single Moms "by Choice", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged bridge, child, children, college, csea, deadbeat, deadbeat dad, democrat, Detroit News, eat, ebt, fathers, food stamps, limbaugh, Maura Corrigan, michigan, mommy, Moria Weir, odjfs, ohio, Rep David Agema, republican, Ronald Panioto, rush, single mothers, state, support, war on women, welfare | 5 Comments

Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”

Posted on January 5, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

The following is my emailed response to an Ohio father who moved here from Georgia and had custody through a Georgia court, of his two children whom he raised alone, and without any assistance from the mother of his children … Continue reading →

Posted in Emails from Others, Miscellaneous, The State of Ohio, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, corrupt, court, csea, custody, enforcement, father, georgia, mother, odjfs, ohio, support | 2 Comments

Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Posted on December 15, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Custody Issues, Morality and Religion, Single Moms, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged addict, agency, child, child support, csea, deadbeat, enforcemnt, moral, morality, ohio, single mom, super mom, support, visitation | 3 Comments

Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone

Posted on November 4, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Editor’s Note: The single mom who wrote the piece below originally posted it as a comment to this lawsuit against the State of Ohio. However, I decided to post it on the front page as her words are very moving … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Miscellaneous, Single Moms, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Comments Off

Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

Posted on October 28, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support Moms (CSMs), Humor Satire Sarcasm and Cynicism, Misandry, Miscellaneous, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, child support mom, children, csea, csm, dad, daddy, enforcement, fathers, mom, mommy, odjfs, ohio, support, villain, visitation, welfare | 2 Comments

The Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) is Sued for ‘Stealing’ $84,506.14

Posted on October 27, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

As if the class action lawsuit filed by Matthew Dunlop against the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS) didn’t already shed a very truthful and exceedingly ugly light on the Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) nearly criminal … Continue reading →

Did Kim Newsom Bridges Admit that Ohio Sabotages the Employment Efforts of Noncustodial Parent’s?

Posted on September 28, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

This article ran in the Columbus Dispatch on September 25, 2011. First, I’d like to point out that although Ohio’s new child support statutes are a step in the right direction, they do have a very long way to go … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Title-IV D of the Social Security Act, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, bridges, brown, child, csea, directors, employment, franklin, Kevin Filiatraut, Kevin R Filiatraut, kim newsom, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parent, security, social, support, susan | 3 Comments

Ohio Answers Child Support Class Action Complaint

Posted on August 1, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

After reading through Ohio’s response (filed as a Motion to Dismiss requesting Summary Judgment) to Matt Dunlop’s Class Action Lawsuit, it’s my humble opinion that MPP Law has Ohio dead to rights with regard to the allegations in Mr. Dunlop’s … Continue reading → Continue reading →

Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments

Posted on July 18, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

The following is an email (and my reply) that I just received from an Ohio father who is nearly $1,000 overpaid on his child support. Think about that for a moment; a class action lawsuit (referenced below) was filed against the Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, The State of Ohio, The Voices of Others, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, csea, enforcement, odjfs, ohio, ohio child support, overpayment, support | 18 Comments

Only One Person Can Help Everyone Overcome “The System”

Posted on July 11, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

The exchange posted below is one between myself and a father who recently commented here on the Blog. I feel it’s imperative to repost it here because until noncustodial parents (NCPs) begin to very carefully intellectualize, comprehend, and finally, act Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged assistance, child, csea, fathers, help, odjfs, ohio, ohio father's rights, rights, support, visitation | 12 Comments

Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on July 9, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on July 9, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Editor’s Note: This is a repost of a blog entry that was made on May 10, 2011. The lawsuit below was filed by Matt Dunlop of Ohio. If you believe that the bond between parent and child must be protected … Continue reading → Continue reading →

Ohio Moves to Separate Children from Fathers by Defunding Fatherhood Program

Posted on June 22, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Since founding this organization in 2007, I’ve always maintained that Ohio’s highly abusive (and as alleged in this recently filed lawsuit; fraudulent and wrongfully collected) child support collections efforts aren’t effected “in the best interests of the children” as the Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Fathers Rights Advocates Organizations and Advocacy, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services (ODJFS), The State of Ohio, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, child support, csea, enforcement, kim newsom bridges, odjfs, ohio, support | 1 Comment

Why The System is as it is and Won’t Change…Yet

Posted on May 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Posted on May 10, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Protecting and Provisioning for Children as the End of “The Age of America” Dawns

Posted on April 27, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

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Received Via Email from an Ohio Mother in Defense of Her Incarcerated Son

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Thu, 21 Apr 2011 07:58:23 -0400 [04/21/2011 04:58:23 AM PDT] From: Cathy Xxxxxx <XXXXXXXX@zoomtown.com> To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: please help Hi Tony, I am writing to you for my son, he doesn’t know that I’m doing this but we all … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Received Via Email from a Hamilton County Father

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:17:03 -0400 [03:17:03 PM PDT] From: Txxxx Xxxxxxx <xxxxxx@gmail.com> To: ‘Tony Fantetti’ <tony.fantetti@ocffr.org> Subject: RE: Ohio Council for Fathers Rights website Hi Tony, Thanks for providing this informative site, organization, and your blog.I’m researching a possible … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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My Reasons for Founding Ohio Council for Fathers Rights

Posted on April 22, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

After my horrific introduction to Ohio’s “‘Child Support’ Extortion Agency” (CSEA) and Ohio’s Domestic Relations (aka “Family”) Court system, the kaleidoscope through which I viewed life was forever altered, and in a totally unchangeable way. In truth, it’s extremely difficult … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Another Warren County Father Commits Suicide

Posted on April 13, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Recently, a noncustodial father who was being harassed by the Warren County Ohio “Child Support” Enforcement Agency (CSEA) and who hadn’t seen his children in years, committed suicide. Given that he only recently sought help for his accompanying mental illness, … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Received Via Email: Currently a Victim of CSEA

Posted on April 5, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Date: Mon, 4 Apr 2011 19:42:25 -0700 [04/04/2011 07:42:25 PM PDT] From: Axxxxxxxx@xxxxx.com To: tony.fantetti@ocffr.org Subject: Currently a Victim of CSEA Hello Tony I am desperate and trying to find help, advice or anything in regards to my Child Support … Continue reading → Continue reading →

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Category Archives: Uncategorized

Happy Fathers Day

A Diabolically Evil “Mother” Locks a Loving Father Out of his Sons Lives

To Mr. Kevin Eslinger why I Removed your Comment

OCFFR Blog Temporarily Going Offline

The Horrific Costs of the Balkanization and Pimping of Men by Pols and the Media

Happy Fathers Day to all Dads

P&G’s Olympic-Sized Slap to all Father’s Faces Wins the Gold for Global Corporate Paternal Contempt

Why?

Happy Fathers Day to all Dads!

The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

Single Working Mother Hatefully Denigrates all Single Fathers who’ve Fallen Behind on their “Child Support” Obligations

Not so Fast $6,000,000 Man Steve Austin Katie Holmes is Ohio’s $10,000,000 “Child Support Mom”

I Apologize to My Readers for the Long Period of Silence which Sadly Included Father’s Day

The Fading and Fizzling Effects of Mark Byron’s Cincinnati “Shooting Star” Like Case

Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program

Good and Loving Ohio Father Asks “Why?”

Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Words of Wisdom from Single Mom who Raised Four Alone

Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

Despite Being Sued Ohio Still Won’t Return “Child Support” Overpayments

Only One Person Can Help Everyone Overcome “The System”

Ohio Moves to Separate Children from Fathers by Defunding Fatherhood Program

Why The System is as it is and Won’t Change…Yet

Ohio Child Support Lawsuit: ODJFS Accused of Knowingly Over Collecting in Class Action Complaint

Protecting and Provisioning for Children as the End of “The Age of America” Dawns

Received Via Email from an Ohio Mother in Defense of Her Incarcerated Son

Received Via Email from a Hamilton County Father

My Reasons for Founding Ohio Council for Fathers Rights

Another Warren County Father Commits Suicide

Received Via Email: Currently a Victim of CSEA

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