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Happy Fathers Day

Today is Father’s Day,  a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading

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To Mr. Kevin Eslinger why I Removed your Comment

Mr. Eslinger, In the 12 years I’ve been doing this, I’ve deleted only two comments on this blog. I’ve spent thousands of dollars of my own money, and put thousands of hours of my own time into helping others free of … Continue reading

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14 Year Old Boy Raped by 20 Year Old Woman is Ordered to Pay his Rapist Child Support

This story was first reported a few days ago, and aside from the anger it causes me right now, I can only say it really doesn’t surprise me. Another thing I’d like to point out is the fact that they … Continue reading

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Ohio’s Abuse of a Loving Father’s Daughter Via “Child Support”

The story below was posted as a comment by a father named Corey in April 2012. Corey’s story is very moving and clearly illustrates how the State of Ohio’s draconian and very abusive “child support” tactics actually harm children. That’s … Continue reading

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Happy Fathers Day to all Dads

Happy Father’s Day to all of you dads out there!  Today is certainly a day to celebrate the many blessings that dads bring to their children as well as those blessings that they bring to us! Children and wives are … Continue reading

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Why?

“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading

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Happy Fathers Day to all Dads!

Today is Father’s Day,  a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading

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Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response)  to the front page  OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading

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The Lesser Known and Rarely Discussed “Other Woman” that many Single Dads couldn’t Live Without

The forthcoming is an email exchange between myself and a woman whose type I’ve really come to appreciate over the years. “Shelly” and the women like her, are the cherished (by the new boyfriend/husband and his children)  and often times … Continue reading

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Struggling Single Father Who is Penniless Hopeless and Despondent Decscribes the Life of Many

A single father just sent me the following brief albeit very profound email; What do you do when they take so much support out of your check that it is literally pointless to try to work? When it costs you … Continue reading

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Single Working Mother Hatefully Denigrates all Single Fathers who’ve Fallen Behind on their “Child Support” Obligations

I generally don’t waste the precious time that I did “debating”  people such as the  contentious woman with whom I had the conversation with here. However, her unwarranted attack on myself and all single dads with her snide and hateful … Continue reading

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Single Super Mom Struggles Morally with Child Support and Visitation

Some comments are so moving and compelling that I move them to the front page of the Blog. That, because I believe it’s imperative that as many as possible understand the moral dilemma that’s often faced by the many good … Continue reading

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Ohio Moves to Separate Children from Fathers by Defunding Fatherhood Program

Since founding this organization in 2007, I’ve always maintained that Ohio’s highly abusive (and as alleged  in this recently filed lawsuit;  fraudulent and wrongfully collected) child support collections efforts aren’t effected “in the best interests of the children” as the Continue reading Continue reading

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There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading

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Job Seeking Ohio Father Fears Felony Indictment for Being Unemployed

At a fatherhood summit in Ohio about 18 months ago, I unleashed a verbal tirade directed at Ohio’s Deputy Child Support Director at that time. I demanded an immediate moratorium on Ohio’s felony indictment of fathers for criminal nonsupport. That, … Continue reading

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Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

1/2/11 EDITOR’S NOTE: Please note that the State of Ohio has removed their website links that I’ve referenced in the previously published article below. This is not uncommon for them to do, as they regularly remove web pages on their … Continue reading

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What Ohio Doesn’t want the Public to Know about its “Child Support” Collections Efforts

The pleas we receive for help are incessant. The voice mails fill up all available memory, the emails requesting assistance are endless. Some cries for help entail pages of very disturbing and intimate details about the person’s situation; Others are … Continue reading

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The Hamilton County CSEA Seizes $4200 in Tax Returns but Refuses to Credit my Support Obligation

I was involuntarily separated from my employer in December 2007. From January 2008 through May 2008, I had no income and therefore could not pay my $900.00/mo child support obligation; A monthly obligation that I am ordered to pay despite … Continue reading

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An Ohio Attorney Who Claims that Child Support Obligations are “Always” Modifiable

The letter below was submitted by me (Tony Fantetti) via a law firm’s web site user-input form. On that site, an Ohio attorney claims that child support is “always” modifiable if there exists a material change of circumstance for the … Continue reading

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Cuyahoga County Ohio CSEA is Confiscating Cancer-Fighting Fathers Income

The Ohio Father’s email copied below is beyond sickening. It’s further proof that Ohio’s Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs) could not care less about the best interests of our children, while their profits on Title-IV child support collections remain their … Continue reading

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Letter from an Incarcerated Ohio Father

In an Ohio Inmate Letter Dated May 19, 2008 I received the following: Dear Mr. Fantetti, First of all, I apologize if I have misspelled your name. I was given this information by another inmate at C.R.C. I am currently … Continue reading

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A Recorded Conversation Between Tony Fantetti and Caseworker Hill from The Hamilton County CSEA

This is a recording of a conversation that took place between myself and Caseworker Hill of the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA). (Please note that due to hastily editing out private information, a couple of sentences seem to … Continue reading

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Update: The Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency Seizes $920 More from an Innocent Mother

My wife just informed me that $920 of her, tax rebate check authorized by President Bush has been seized by the Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) and is to be given to my former wife to satisfy my … Continue reading

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Hamilton County Child Support Enforcement Agency Seizes an Innocent Wife’s Tax Return

Please understand that Ohio Council for Fathers Rights (OCFFR) is not about me or my case, it’s about all of Ohio’s innocent parents and children who are regularly victimized and terrorized by Ohio’s 88 county Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs.) … Continue reading

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Understanding Ohio’s Calloused Indifference Towards Laying Waste to People’s Lives

Following are questions repeatedly asked of me by many of Ohio’s non-custodial, child support paying parents who are scared, confused, and suffering because of Ohio’s inhumane and hateful punitive child support collection practices. “Why does the state of Ohio destroy … Continue reading

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Contact Us if You were Wrongfully Labeled a “Deadbeat” on the Hamilton County Sheriff’s Website

Please note that this article is a rewrite of a previous post that has been removed due to formatting problems it was creating in the Blog. It was re-posted as a new article given that there is a considerable amount … Continue reading

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Hamilton County Ohio Wrongfully Labels 2,822 Parents as “Deadbeats”

I mentioned in my previous post that Hamilton County Sheriff Simon Leis had listed 3500+ Civil Defendants on his web site who had outstanding warrants. That page had disappeared, but I’ve since learned that the Hamilton County Sheriff’s web site … Continue reading

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Darke County Ohio CSEA Indicts Father with Broken Neck for Criminal Felony Non-Support

David Rose, the innocent Ohio Council for Fathers Rights member wrongly incarcerated after being convicted by the perjured testimony of a Darke County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) employee wrote in a recent letter to me: “There’s another Father imprisoned … Continue reading

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Ohio Costs Me My Job Raises My Child Support 20 Percent and Will Indict Me to Punish Me

You do not need glasses, you read that correctly. My former employer (of almost seven years including my contracting time) fired me when the Hamilton County Fugitive Warrant Unit came to their business to arrest me. A Hamilton County judge … Continue reading

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