Tag Archives: fathers

The Horrific Costs of the Balkanization and Pimping of Men by Pols and the Media

Posted on August 29, 2014 by Tony Fantetti

This post is really out of character for me. So much so, that I wasn’t going to post it. However I must, because the root of men’s problems (especially single or divorced father’s) is found in the contemptible treatment of … Continue reading →

Posted in Misandry, Miscellaneous, Uncategorized | Tagged agency, balkanization, camping, child, csea, Daniel Rodrigo Saenz, enforcement, execute, family, fathers, homeless, james boyd, mens, misandry, misogynist, misogyny, murder, odjfs, ohio, P&G, pimp, police, pols, Proctor and Gamble, rights, services, support, women | Comments Off

Why?

Posted on August 19, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

“Why?” Is a question that I hear fathers ask often, and in reference to the draconian tactics of Ohio’s 88 “Child Support” Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs), or as I’d prefer to call them, Ohio’s Child Support Extortion Agencies. Such is asked … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Miscellaneous, Suicide, Uncategorized | Tagged anger, child support, csea, depression, despair, emotionally, fathers, fear, hell, hopelessness, injustice, loneliness, madness, ohio, suicide, torment, war, women | 2 Comments

Happy Fathers Day to all Dads!

Posted on June 16, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

Today is Father’s Day, a day that can be filled with conflicting emotions for some single dads. Overall, it’s generally considered a happy and blessed day for those dads who have access to their children and thereby can see and … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged absent, blessed, blessing, bond, child, child support, children, court, daddy, dads, depression, emotions, fathers, Fathers day, single moms | Comments Off

Suicide Posing as Freedom for Fathers Unjustly Burdened with Lifetimes of “Child Support” but for Whom?

Posted on January 27, 2013 by Tony Fantetti

On occasion, and when I think many others will benefit from an exchange, I’ll post a users comment (and my response) to the front page OCFFR Blog and post it under every category as well to give it more exposure. … Continue reading →

I Apologize to My Readers for the Long Period of Silence which Sadly Included Father’s Day

Posted on July 14, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

Please accept my humble and sincere apology for the long period of silence through which no posts were made to the blog, and likewise I was unable to return phone calls and emails. Although I won’t go into specifics, the … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Abuse, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized | Tagged child, children, court, divorce, fathers, moral, single mom, single mom by choice, support, visitation | Comments Off

Michigan Purposely Kicks Single Fathers Out of Food Stamp Program

Posted on April 18, 2012 by Tony Fantetti

Given how long it’s been since I’ve blogged, this article is not something I really want to spend precious time discussing. Especially in lieu of recent emails to me from desperate, hopeless, and despondent fathers who are contemplating suicide. Only … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Moms (CSMs), Miscellaneous, Morality and Religion, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Single Moms "by Choice", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged bridge, child, children, college, csea, deadbeat, deadbeat dad, democrat, Detroit News, eat, ebt, fathers, food stamps, limbaugh, Maura Corrigan, michigan, mommy, Moria Weir, odjfs, ohio, Rep David Agema, republican, Ronald Panioto, rush, single mothers, state, support, war on women, welfare | 5 Comments

Three Child Support Moms (CSMs) Attempt to Defend the Indefensible – Themselves

Posted on October 28, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

First and foremost I wish to state that yes, I do recognize that there are many legitimate situations where child support is warranted, especially in the case of the true deadbeat parents (not just dads, but also moms) who like … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support Moms (CSMs), Humor Satire Sarcasm and Cynicism, Misandry, Miscellaneous, Single Moms "by Choice", The Voices of Others, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, child support mom, children, csea, csm, dad, daddy, enforcement, fathers, mom, mommy, odjfs, ohio, support, villain, visitation, welfare | 2 Comments

Only One Person Can Help Everyone Overcome “The System”

Posted on July 11, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

The exchange posted below is one between myself and a father who recently commented here on the Blog. I feel it’s imperative to repost it here because until noncustodial parents (NCPs) begin to very carefully intellectualize, comprehend, and finally, act Continue reading Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged assistance, child, csea, fathers, help, odjfs, ohio, ohio father's rights, rights, support, visitation | 12 Comments

Are “Single Moms by Choice” Heroines or Villains?

Posted on January 10, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Before proceeding, I want to clarify the following; This article is not directed at mothers who divorced for legitimate reasons or are single through no fault of their own. It’s directed at those “child support moms” who either chose to … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Single Moms "by Choice", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, choice, csea, divorce, enforcement, false, fathers, federal, kim newsom bridges, lie, moms, ohio, order, protective, restraining, single, support | 4 Comments

Ohio Removes Web Pages after We’ve Linked to them

Posted on January 3, 2011 by Tony Fantetti

Please note that I’ve linked to various web pages on the State of Ohio’s web sites in many posts I’ve made to this blog. I’m discovering that Ohio has since removed the specific portions (from their website) that I had referenced … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Ohio CSEA Directors Association (OCDA), Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child, csea, enforcement, fathers, felony, jobs, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, odjfs, ohio, support | 3 Comments

There are Hundreds of Thousands of Others Living Your Nightmare

Posted on December 6, 2010 by Tony Fantetti

It is my opinion that a phrase that keeps repeating is a phrase that should be written about. For those living the nightmare as that of a beaten down, tired, and financially ruined non-custodial parent (NCP) repeat the following simple … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Support, Child Support Hurts, Suicide, This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?", Uncategorized | Tagged agency, child support, county, csea, darke, enforcement, fathers, hamilton, horror, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, nightmare, noncustodial, ocda, odjfs, ohio, parents, story, suicide | 7 Comments

What Ohio Doesn’t want the Public to Know about its “Child Support” Collections Efforts

Posted on August 4, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

The pleas we receive for help are incessant. The voice mails fill up all available memory, the emails requesting assistance are endless. Some cries for help entail pages of very disturbing and intimate details about the person’s situation; Others are … Continue reading →

Posted in Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA) Abuses, The State of Ohio, These are "Deadbeats?", This is in the "Best Interests of the Children?" | Tagged agency, child support, county, csea, dan cade, darke, enforcement, fathers, hamilton county, kim newsom bridges, mallot, montgomery, ncsea, odjfs, ohio, shinke | 34 Comments

Ohio Council for Fathers Rights Wishes all Loving Dads a Happy Fathers Day

Posted on July 15, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

To all loving fathers nationwide, I wish you a very happy and enjoyable Father’s Day today. More specifically, to those who dared to become fathers and who have paid the ultimate price – felony convictions and incarceration through no fault … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged child, county, csea, fathers, hamilton county, incarceration, ohio, support | Comments Off

Congressman Steve Chabot (R-OH) Shuns Ohio’s Non-Custodial Parents Sinking Financially but Moves to Save Ship

Posted on May 7, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

Life as a Non-Custodial Parent (NCP) is difficult at best. Many are bankrupt, without licenses (they were suspended by the CSEAs to “punish” parents who fell behind in child support payments), without jobs, denied public assistance, lacking basic necessities, have … Continue reading →

Posted in Politics, Uncategorized | Tagged chabot, Cincinnati, congress, congressman, county, csea, delta queen, fathers, hamilton, HCJFS, high, kim newsom bridges, ncsea, odjfs, ohio, republican, school, ship, side, steve, west, winton woods | Comments Off

Butler County CSEA Director Cynthia Brown Accuses Fathers of Being Purposely Absent

Posted on April 22, 2008 by Tony Fantetti

I found the following link on Glenn Sacks blog. http://www.middletownjournal.com/hp/content/oh/story/news/local/2008/04/15/mj041608csea.html For those not familiar with Butler County Ohio, their domestic and juvenile relations courts are considered by many to be the most anti-father, biased and unjust courts in the state … Continue reading →

Posted in Butler County Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Child Support, Ohio Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA), Uncategorized | Tagged absent, brown, bulter, child, children, county, csea, cynthia, cynthia brown, deceptive, fatherlessness, fathers, kim newsom bridges, ocda, odjfs, support | Comments Off